NC would help because right now although she’s still in contact with you, the fact remains the same that she won’t give you another shot. You have to give her some time to change that train of thought and by showing her you’ve changed. This is hard to see when she’s still in constant contact with you. Complete NC and work on your issues before coming back and asking her for a second chance.

While it is important to not pursue your ex for a month or so, it’s okay to be responsive if he or she pursues you. In other words, if you get a call, don’t hang up on your ex or refuse to talk. It is not necessary to try to play mind games or play hard to get, and doing so would have the potential to push him or her further away, which is the opposite of your goal at this point.[7]

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You will need to begin by sorting your thoughts out. Even if there’s a chance, some distance is first required before re-initiating contact with your ex. Distance does not mean time frame of the breakup but rather, the amount of contact made during the particular time frame, and the changes you’ve made to impress her. Right now, she needs to deal with the emotional trauma of losing a child. She is pushing you away probably because you are unable to provide the emotional support she requires, and by constantly pestering her, you lower your own chances because she will eventually lose respect and feelings for you. I would still recommend no contact first, and to figure out where you need to grow as a person, before thinking about winning her back.

That’s the story of around 80% of the people who are desperate to get their ex back. It’s a huge mistake to text and call your ex all the time. In fact, it’s a huge mistake to call them even once. Your instincts tell you that if you stay in contact with your ex, they will not forget about you and hopefully come back.

Same case is with me mate, I want my GF badly but do not know how? She stopped talking to me and replying me as well but most surprising thing was she did not tell me why she did so? I never did any thing that hurt her, she is not telling me the reason as well, I am extremely disappointed. Someone help me please.

My question is: what’s the best timing to send the e-mail? Isn’t it overwhelming around holiday time? Shall I just extend NC until he’s back in town? Maybe I could combine it with wishing him happy holidays and happy birthday?

This third step to win your ex girlfriend back might be difficult. Avoid going out on intimate dates. Your main focus should be getting your ex girlfriend back in your life. Even though you might be depressed, the best way to release the stress would be to hang out and socialize with friends.

Hi , I’m so confused , can someone tell me what’s going on ?! , My ex girlfriend left me almost 3 weeks ago….she told me that she want to stay alone and rethink her thoughts , she’s has a huge dose of introversion since she was a child ,literally she only had me to talk with, and a firend who also has her own relationship.., a lot of problems in the family with her parents , and i was a little too pushy, i wanted to see her and stuff , and she just wanted to stay home and , do nothing, talk with no one ,she even delete her facebook account ….and i panicked and cried in front of her in the night she told me she want to break up….i guess that’s a bad move, but i couldn’t stand it….just because she promised me, she swore that she’ll never leave me and that i’m all she has , and that’s weird because a few days before she started to became …quiet i might say…she had plans with me , sleep at my place, and planning concerts in the spring break summer……i’m sooo confused …. i dont know what to do…..

The first and most important step in texting your ex is to maybe not do it at all. Are you drunk? Are you sad? Do you just want attention? Are you trying to make someone else jealous? Most importantly, is there someone else you can contact about this issue other than your ex? Maybe an old mutual friend?

Give your ex some space. If you want to win your woman back, the worst thing you can do is call her constantly, text her every two seconds, or even follow her around everywhere. Though “out of sight, out of mind,” is true to an extent, you should start off by giving your ex some breathing room so she can have some time to reflect, enjoy her privacy, and regain enough emotional strength to want you again.

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