I have successfully started cross-fit, a new job and become open in possibly moving for my career and taking the next step in growth. I have also sought therapy, opened myself back to God, and dove into various self-help books.
When i did that, she used to tell me not to. I didn’t change myself though. I had been stubborn like a idiot. And looked very upset to her. No talking. Wtf… Now i hate myself in the past… And i forced to her to do what i want. She had been really tired of me.
I am concerned that he might got scared or started to keep distance because in the last 2 conversation I started to try to build up attraction. As he knows all my lady charm tricks, I think he figured out what I am trying to do… I feel the need of a break, so I have decided to give myself 2 weeks of free time, as I don’t want to end up again desperate and needy, and I feel like these 2 weeks would be enough time for him to finish the exams and to get used again to the school life.
It doesn’t matter why your relationship ends, it also doesn’t matter who breaks the relationship and it also doesn’t matter whatever the reason for your breakup. You can always get your ex girlfriend if you ready to put some of your efforts and MOST IMPORTANTLY you feel you have DEEPEST CONNECTION with her that you can’t build with any other girl.
When you talk, talk about things he likes as well as what you like. It shows that you’re interested in him enough to care about his likes and dislikes, and that you trust him enough to confide in him.
But after the two of you break up is the perfect time to really throw yourself into doing things that matter to you. Do the things you didn’t have time for when you were in a relationship. Visit with friends, take up a new hobby, work to get a promotion at work, hit the gym more frequently. Do things that make you feel good about you.
This tip probably seems a little counter-intuitive, but trusts me when I say that it works like a charm. This method is psychologically proven to increase your chances of getting back with your ex. The reason for this is simple – people want what they can’t have. By not communicating with your ex girlfriend, you create for yourself an aura of independence and confidence. These two traits are very attractive.
So then I see a picture on insta of him & that girl & messaged him finding out they started dating less than a week after our last fight because “they just clicked” & right after finals he went to her house out of state & met her parents (she is rich & apparently has her own house). He said they really like each other but don’t love each other yet & isn’t even thinking about marriage. I told him it didn’t make sense why he’s with her & he said he had a change of heart/things happened fast. We had an ugly fight after that because I was so angry, it was the worst one & he said that’s why he left me. I made a lot of mistakes, really seeming needy but he’s blocked me on everything telling me he really likes her & I need to respect that. I said I did & just wanted to talk/be friends (which he said too) but he’s blocked me. I think it’s a rebound but he broke up with a girl like a month before meeting me & he says he completely shuts out exes. It doesn’t seem like they match but that he really likes her. I don’t know what to do but just really want him back since I’m committed to him but I feel like the more they’re together, they’ll fall in love & I’ve already made myself look like a fool. Help!
My girlfriend and i started dating april 5th, after 3 weeks we had sex it was awesome, 3 weeks later she asked how old i was i said 46 and she was 28, after about a week she broke up with me because of the age diff, i went nc for 4 days, i sent her flowers and that night she stopped by my house, after that she came at me like a fireball, she came back bell ya, she stayed at my place most of the time after that, 10 days went by and she just shut off like a lihht switch, i ran after her like an idiot, i may have lost her forever its been 5 weeks since ive seen her beautiful faceut yesterday i fb mess her and told her i wanted my shirt back, she did not answer, i mess her again telling her to keep it and i was done, reminding her of all the good times we had together, and i said good luck, and she was the most beautiful girl in the word! She mess me rite away and said, i will drop your shirt off this week! Im hoping she wants to talk but i have a feeling she will shove it in the mailbox! What is my next move, what should i do??? Please help,!!!
The second one is asking yourself that whether the girl is safe to sleep with? Or do she have any of the symptoms of heavy diseases like aids etc. If not, then there are two ways of re-connecting with her.
So it’s been about 4 months since me and my x broke up. We broke up because she got jealous about other women who were giving me attention, and i lied about one of these girls at a party and i just got too comfortable and didn’t show interest. Well then after we broke up i made out with one of the girls and i told her about it and it devestated her. I told her the kiss meant nothing and I was thinking about her when it happened. We’ve hung out like 7 times since the break up and things got pretty affectionate 4 out of the 7 times. It’s just been a rough past summer for me in general with my grandpa passing away and adjusting to all this change. I do love the girl and I’m attempting to get her back by going to her school which is an hour away and serenading her wih a guitar right on campus haha. We’ve broken up before about 2 years ago and I did the same thing just outside of her house. What do you think of this? She has me blocked on facebook and snapchat, yet we still keep in touch through text and phone calls and shes friends with my mom on facebook still haha. And I still remain very close with her family
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yo im going through the exact same thing right now. the girl of my dreams and i were together for 9 months. i had been friends with her for about a year before. then we ended up together. the nine months was great. absolutely amazing. sure it had its moments, but every relationship does. then i fell into that comfort zone, where i didnt realize how bad of a boyfriend i was being because i was working all the time and i would be exhausted, and she tuned me out because of it. we just broke up 2 1/2 weeks ago and were still talking but, she seeing another dude, who was a shoulder to cry on when she thought that i didnt love her anymore. we had a place together and i moved into my boys extra room. now she doesnt want to stay there by herself so she may move in with him. weve talked and she seems like the breakup isnt what she wanted but, she also seems like she likes the new guy somewhat if shes willing to move into his house right after we broke up. but i can tell that she does still love me, and i want my fuckin girl back. she has until the 1st of january to decide if shes gonna move. i dont know what to do. i feel like if she does move into his house, it’ll be too late for us to try in the future. what can i do to convince her not to move into this douchebox’s house?
Allow your conversation to progress naturally. Avoid making her feel that you are forcing her to go back to you. However, make sure that you also observe her and look for subtle hints that she still has feelings for you. If there is, then maybe it is the right time to bring up slowly the topic of giving the two of you another try.
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My story seems to be a bit different then most. So without trying to bore you completely I’ll give you the basics. I met my ex in high school and boy did I hate her she was that annoying chick in class I couldn’t stand. After high school I began hanging out with her with my best friend, now the big twist begins here. I had left my house with my boy and her there and one thing led to another and they ended up hanging out afterward and having a kid. I wasn’t mad at either of them bc I never expressed my feelings for her before hand. There son was 3 months old when they broke up, I lost contact with my buddy but regained connection with her and as friends went to eat with her. Ever since that day we were inseparable, she was my best friend my lover and in my eyes soon to be wife. Her son was 1 1/2 when we found out we were having a little girl. She did not want to have another child which forced a argument of her wanting a abortion. After consideration she decided it wasn’t the right thing to do and proceeded with the pregnancy. We had our baby girl dec 24,2011 best day of my life. Now she will be 2 In a month me and the ex are broken up and she is out partying like she is 16 everyday I get my daughter. She has lied to me and put me threw a lot but I can’t help but want her back, I mean guys she is the mother of my child. She wants nothing to do with me, took me for child support and custody. Am I crazy for thinking it’s not over and trying every opportunity I get to get her back and persuade her. What could I do to win her over, I love her with all my heart and want to spend the rest of my life with her, my daughter and her son who I’ve taken in as my own. Help, advice?! Bare with me it’s a open wound.
but its been 2 months and i miss her alot but i just dont know how to get her back i still love herand i still wanna be with her but i just dont know what to do or say yo make her wanna be with me again
You may be having the favorite gift of your girlfriend around like a watch of a tablet. Or you may be having a birthday card stating” Happy birthday Honey”. But the fact is that the removal of these sites from your eye is important. You cannot afford to have all the remembering around while you are doing your daily stuff. It hinders one patience and focus while doing his work.
Try to do it initially several times a week, it takes only a few minutes. Accompany it with the keeping of an evening philosophical diary where you write down your impressions, thoughts, and reactions to how you feel and what happens to you. All of this should help you regain perspective on things.
You’re probably now feeling very defeated. Many of your tactics for keeping your girl sweet have unfortunately worked against you, and this leaves you asking, “So what the f*** do I do?! How can I get my ex-girlfriend back?”
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Resist the temptation to call. Especially after longer-term relationships, the urge to get back in touch with your ex can be overwhelming. Do your very best to resist it; it will only make things worse in the long run.
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Afterwards we texted for almost three consecutive days, but we both agreed that it felt weird and decided to text each other every other day for the whole day. We both have every intention of finally meeting up on Christmas. She’s said she’s really wanting to focus on school right now, which I completely respect, but I do want to get her back. I want to prove to her that I can not be a clingy, jealous, insecure guy! Are the steps we are taking the appropriate ones?
Last sunday (Aug 3rd) my girlfriend of over 4 years broke up with me. We’ve been dating since June 2010. She is 20 and I am 21. She means the world to me. Theres nothing that can even explain how much this girl means to me. I bought her a one way ticket to where I live (Chicago) for her birthday. She lives in Virginia. We both go to school in Florida and love visiting clearwater beach almost every weekend. The past 4 years my life revolved around her and even though she’s not with me right now my life still revolves around her. She made me a better boyfriend, brother, son, and student. All I wanted is for her to be happy. When she broke up with me she kept telling me that she didn’t see the happiness she sees in other girls who get married in herself. She also told me that she thinks that we both want different things.
Few months ago I asked him tell me truth and I’ll walk away from you life , but he said I don’t have an answer and if I’ll deal my life’s troubles I’ll come to you to marry , but now live your life …etc, then he was keeping in touch sometimes , and now just silence from him. I gave up and don’t bothering him anymore too, I’m trying NC , also I disappeared from all my social nets, but I think it will useless in my case, he can’t solve his difficulties