If you must remain in contact because of children or other shared obligations, know that there is a distinct difference between being friendly and being friends. True friendship means two people care about each other’s well-being and have one another’s best interest at heart. By the time many relationships end, it is often in question whether both parties can genuinely provide this kind of care and support for one another. The expectation that someone who didn’t treat you well while you were together will be capable of being a true friend afterward sets you up to continue being hurt. But choosing to be friendly means you can, without expectations, acknowledge the love you shared and honor that time in your life by treating the other person with kindness and respect.
If a girl understands your bullshit, sticks around through all your mistakes, and smiles even though you’ve done nothing for her. Then it’s obvious she’s a keeper, but it’s also obvious you don’t deserve her.
Me n my ex been together for 2 and a half years n we had a very rough time. He is a very nice guy but he’s mad he tend to scream n shout n he never let me win. N slowly i change to become like him eventho he’s slowly changing. I keep seeing his old mistake n after a while he said to me that he was tired. N he just doesn’t want to do this anymore. I tried to win him n at first he said dont put too much hope but after 5 days he’s start dating new person. N now he already found his new gf. We just broke up 2 weeks ago. N he’s changing 360. He’s not the type who like to post woman pic on ig bc of family members are following. He only like to post the view but now he started to post his new gf photo n his gf are doing the same too. I feel like I didn’t know him anymore. We had a bad fight before n now im trying to apply the ncr. Will this work? Pls help me.
Yes, and it’s a lot easier than you might think. Your ex’s feelings for you didn’t disappear overnight, just because he broke things off. The emotional bonds he felt – and still feels – for you can be played upon, drawing them out and creating a scenario in which your ex boyfriend starts missing you again.
I started dating this guy and everything was so amazing we would spend everyday and night together for weeks until his lease was up and he asked if he could stay at my place for a couple of days.. a couple of days turned into 2 months. His ex would call on blocked numbers everyday but he told me not to worry she was crazy. He ended up cheating on me with her.. I was miserable I couldn’t eat or sleep we ended up getting back together immediately and then 2 weeks back together I ran into his ex and saw he was still communicating with her… when I confronted him he said i was childish and he dosent have time for high school drama. I told him to get his stuff out of my house but I couldn’t stop crying he said he wanted to work things out with me again but I needed to give him some space.. I left to visit my parents and I didn’t come back for the last 2 months… I just got back to my house and his car is still at my place but he will barely text me back. I’ve made progress moving on from him but I feel myself in withdrawal and I just want him back.. I miss spending everyday with someone.. he told me the pressures of a relationship were too much for him that I require too much attention I feel like he resents me now.. he called me a week ago super happy saying how good it was to hear my voice but now nothing… writing this makes him seem like he treated me horrible but the good times were beyond amazing it’s just the lows were really bad mostly from his doing. How do I get him back? Is he leaving the car for a way to come back in my life? The last two months I’ve been gone he’s also been gone traveling for work.. he’s currently not in town.. so when I text him about his car he dosent really respond since he hasn’t been here to move it or see me.. he has two cars so I feel like the one at my place he dosent even really care about.
Great post! Very thorough and thought out. I wish I had this when I went through my rough breakup years ago. One tip a friend of mine gave me was to do something nice for yourself every day. Simple but it helps.
I could not help replying to your comment. Your words struck a cord with me. I was left by the person who was my dream to have beside me. She left with the words ”I don’t want anyone but you” ”I don’t know how I could find someone to replace you”. So I will say this to you. Remember her even if it hurts. Smile when you do when you are reminded of the little things that made her unique. Don’t let her walk out of your life for good! Keep that connection with her but let her reconcile her… Read more »
This isn’t about “punishing” him, or being rude, or being intentionally cruel to him. It’s about giving both of you some much needed space to get perspective on the relationship and really identify the issues that drove you two apart.
He does not seem emotionally capable of dealing with serious issues and would rather avoid it altogether, hence why he leaves you in a state of limbo because he himself doesn’t want to deal with it. Sometimes in this case, it would be better for you to make the choice and stick with it because he may never do it on your behalf.
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Reward yourself for your positive path. Find simple ways to reward yourself. Pamper yourself for a bit. It does not need to be big or fancy. Maybe give yourself a spa day, or bake something that satisfies your sweet tooth. Do something that quantifies your love for yourself.
While trying to sort things out in my life currently and can’t help thinking of her and i came upon this page. And sadly i had committed all 5 deadly mistakes, I don’t know how i can help myself so maybe ill just share my story
Hi! So I have been snapchating with my ex for some time now. The problem is that if I send him a snap he might respond with some emojies or sometimes a comment, but we never actually get a conversation out of it. Should I text him instead of sending him a snap even though we usually only snap? Or should I respond to any of his comments and start a conversation from there? Thanks!