On the other hand, texting the wrong things at the wrong times could royally EF things up! Again, it comes down to your disposition. Give it time to make sure you and your ex boyfriend are in relaxed, chilled states.
I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and half now he is 34 and i am 26, we both have children from previous marriages.we use to visit each other and everything was well. during the period of our relationship i never did anything to hurt him or cheat on him, i was very loyal and true to him, i loved his son like my own. The problem began when he started ignoring my calls and texts, i confronted him every time it happens, he use to rest assure me that he was not comparing me with anyone and he sees me as his wife, i trusted his words. But now we have broken up because he came up with a story that he impregnated his baby mama and it was a 1 day thing, i asked him to take the woman for pregnant test and sonar scan he agreed since we are at a distance i asked him to send me the sonar scan print out as a proof and he never did that, he just told me that the lady is pregnant and is his child. In everything i sense lies i feel like it was just that he was cheating and he wants to push me away from him so that i do not notice. My heart forgive him like i usually do, my concern is i am trying to make peace with him but whenever i call or text him he doesn’t reply. I want him back what must i do to get him back
My situation is similar but weird at the same time. We had a really good relationship and we’re together for about a year but he has two children and their mother has caused so many issues since we have been together. Long story short, he’s in a lot of debt (monthly child support included), works all the time, and feels like he’s made so many mistakes and isn’t where he wants to be in life. So he basically told me that being in a relationship isn’t what he supposed to do right now and he needs time to himself to get his life back on track. So we haven’t spoken (no contact initiated by either one of us) since Mother’s Day. My instinct is telling me that he’s being truthful and just let him go completely and things will work out but it’s just a sad ordeal all together.
Your ex might still want to contact you even after breakup. If this happens, it will certainly make it harder for you to forget him. Be respectful but mindful of your needs. You can change your number (or block his), and delete his number from your contact list. If you memorized his number, you will really have to discipline yourself and do your best not to contact him.
Finally, in order to move on when you’re still in love with your ex, you have to remember that he’s not the only man on the planet. Yes, it probably feels like he’s the only man on the planet, and he’s certainly the only man who’s important to you, but he’s not the ONLY man on the planet. There are plenty of other men – nice me, attractive men, well-adjusted men – who want to be with you, too. It’s just not always the easiest thing to find, is it? Don’t give up, he’s out there. But don’t give in to your ex while you’re waiting either. Take my advice and keep moving forward.
The next day i was quite confused and needed answers I texted and asked could we meet and talk face to face or via phone. He stated he was not ready to talk and needed time. I texted and said thanks I now know where I stand and wished him the best of luck in the future. He said thanks and he would be back to his normal self soon.
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Could you write and article on how to deal with a man child baby daddy. I stayed away from dating him but had an accidental baby. Now I have to deal with his narsatistic man child ways! I am an indipendent woman but am now tied to this man child!
I fell into the moving back with him trap 4 times. each time my heart got broken a little bit more. I love him with all my heart still even though its finished. it finished in a horrible way, with all my friends and him talking for a week about how we should break up without me knowing anything about it, him then treating me like dirt and then telling me he only came back to me cos he thought id kill myself. ive never been suicidal, it was a stupid excuse of his and what also hurts is him trying to make me go out with other boys who I clearly could never love.
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Kinda going through similar situation. Sucks so bad. My boyfriend and I have been together for 13 months. I lived with him for about 3 months. Everything for the first like 10 months was PERFECT…..thought he was my soul mate. Loved him with all off my heart….then he started hanging out more with his friends than me…only asked me over or to go out when it was convenient for me. But I fell hard for him so stupidly I’d always make myself available…well we got in an argument about 2 weeks ago and he’s ignoring me. Haven’t seen him since then….this is how he deals with things…shuts me out and ignores then will say he misses me after a few days and like an idiot I run to him. He is 39 and I am 46 by the way. This time never got the “I miss you” or wanting to see me. So I am assuming this is a break up where he doesn’t have the courage to at least give me closure. I’ve done SO MUCH for him financially and supportive this past year too..a year of my life wasted. I’m trying really hard to do the “no contact” rule but he’s texted and called me. I’m trying to move on but honestly I’d probably take him back if I could…would never tell him that. I told him that I have enough friends so I didn’t need another friend in my life. I also have a TON of my items at his house I have to get back at some point….ughhhhh….I feel your pain. But every day gets better. I keep busy with my two kids, friends and family. Good luck!
Proof It Works: “The more you just sit around at home, the more you run things through your head, which results in your idolizing this person you’re hoping to forget,” says Adam Durham, 23, a civil engineer from Durham, CT. “The one thing that always clears my mind is getting back to nature. It gives me a whole different—better—perspective on life.”