Hi there my bf broke up with me after 2 years of relationship..we were fighting too much..why I was fighting? Because I was just sitting at home and we never go out like a couple. I had loads of problem but he was never here to help. So today he brought all my stuff to my apartment and he said to me if ever I need something I know where to find him. he never accept his own fault..he never says sorry…he always wanted to get rid of me I always beg him not to go..but am tired of licking ass every time. Can you help me to win him back?
Something else to mention here. In most cases if you are ultimately able to get your ex back, it is most likely going to happen face to face. That’s because you can affect a girl’s emotions better face to face. Because remember, as a woman she makes her love-life decisions based on emotion – so that’s why any getting back together will most likely happen face to face.
I know that the fear of being alone can be overwhelming at times, and I think that is why so many people fear losing their ex’s forever. That is why it is so important during No Contact to assess the relationship and consider if it is really worth going back to. You may be surprised what you discover if you are honest with yourself and do some soul-searching.
Show her you’ve changed. You can let her see that you’re a changed man without shouting, “Look how different I am!” Just spend enough time with her to see that you really have changed your ways, if changing your ways was necessary. If she thought you were too messy, put an effort into your appearance. If she criticized you for always showing up late, make a conscious effort to show up early to your next coffee date. Don’t point out these changes; let her see for herself and she will be truly impressed.
This is another legitimate reason for a breakup. Unfortunately, in my personal opinion it says more about of his lack of character (unless you were really boring but I doubt that) than anything you actually did. Luckily, seeming boring is quite easy to fix!
Let’s say you and your ex-girlfriend used to fight all the time regarding your possessiveness. Rate yourself; are you too possessive? If so, you should understand that it is not healthy for a relationship. If on the other hand, you saw your ex-girlfriend with another boy, one who is more outgoing than you, so you must change? No. You’re should never change, but you can improve yourself.
There are so many ways to contact a person these days, it’s almost ridiculous. You can call them, text them, facebook them, tweet them, and so much other stuff. And this comfortable technology leads to one of the worst mistakes people make after a breakup, texting their ex all the time (sometimes hundreds to thousands of texts a day).
Talk about kissing. It is possible that your partner may not be thinking about kissing. You can bring kissing to their mind (and encourage them to kiss you) by bringing up the topic of kissing in conversation.
She’s playing with you until she get what she wants from someone else. You are her comfort zone you know each other so she is just there with you after what she thinks is good is not. She she leave it becaue she thinks she found the one to replace you then she finds out the grass is not greener on the other side so she comes back. She is blaming you for cheating because she is not being 100% with you about what she is doing. She don’t want to have sex due to the fact thst she don’t want no emotional connection with you because she might find someone else and it will be hard to leave if there is emotionally attached to you.
I was with my ex for 9 years off and on. We broke up a lot. I was immature. Shes older. She told me I was her soul mate. I felt the same but couldnt show it. I would text her amazing words but when she would see me I couldnt back thenlm up or say them in person. I was depressed and lacked confidence. She finally had enough and told me she was done and I should move on. She has blocked me to and called me a stalker once or twice. Ive never even drove by her house or wrote her a letter. We were together 9 years! How can she call me a stalker? Because I love her and am trying to show her? Well, I realized in the last 3 months that I didnt appreciate her when I had the chance and I hurt her. I never gave her time or space enough to heal and so she took it. Now I dont think she has forgiven me for not giving her that space. I dont know. Fact is bro that women are capable of pure evil when they are hurt by the man they truly loved. When they stop talking all together its because they killed that amazing love they once cherished.
The week in advance method is just like it sounds. You call him a week in advance and ask him out. The obvious advantage to this is that he has time to clear his schedule and make time for you ;). The obvious disadvantage is that you are laying a lot of your cards on the table and rejection will certainly hurt your feelings. Speaking of rejection…
Before moving to the plan, first recognize the problem that lead to the breakup between you two. There could be many reasons behind this. She may have found a new guy who is rich or has much more charm; you had cheated on her or your attitude towards her. As a relationship grows old, love also grows, but maybe the passion comes down and then usual fights and finally breakup. According to many dating gurus there is always a chance to get your ex back to your life, but you should have a plan. If you have abide by this plan than your passing percentage will gradually increase and you will be able to get ex girlfriend back from new boyfriend she is dating now.
If your ex initiates contact with you then that is fine. The important thing is that you aren’t the one initiating contact. Just keep the conversation short and portray happiness (more on this later).
While Peter was suffering deeply, journaling in emails enabled Peter’s initial thoughts and feelings to flow through a natural grieving and healing process. Having a trusted friend or relative to talk with can help similarly. The first shock of a separation typically induces a reaction similarly to the disbelief and pain of loss that people experience after the sudden death of a loved one. Peter’s journal entries enabled him to dump, explode and vomit out his distress, launching his recovery process.
“Thank you, my ordeal is now over and i am back with my girlfriend. After doing what you instructed she confessed that she couldn’t handle loosing me and we are now back together, but on my terms. The story went like this…”
I am a girl and this is seriously the worst advice a guy can give. Obviously, written by a man. You better spend all of your time adoring her, check your ego and apologize. If she ignores you, she is testing you to see how serious you are. Don’t stop showing your interest.
Like I said, a little bit of jealousy is a good thing, but you can’t be too obvious about it or your ex will simply get irritated and your attempts at stimulating jealousy will have the opposite effect.
Now as mentioned when she is working hard to lift your spirits in relationship. She may also want you to understand what she needs. Try to get close to her feelings not her talks. Understand what she is keenly looking for. Relationship are built upon needs and are carried to the top with love, care and feelings for others, so go for it.