Let’s get straight to the point- you are reading this because you want to win back your ex. You are NOT ALONE. 1000s of men and women have downloaded the “Magic of Making Up”. The reason? It works! There’s a lot of stuff in this book that will probably shock you at first – in fact most of the techniques are ones that you never would have thought of to win back your ex. This guide is written by TW Jackson – a relationship expert and a master of human psychology that understands what it takes to effectively get an ex lover back. It’s powerful stuff.
Just imagine a scenario where you don’t want to talk to a person and they are sending you a text message every 5 minutes. Your inbox is filled with hundreds of messages by them, even though you haven’t replied to even one. And later on at night, that person gets drunk and calls you and start saying complete and utter non-sense. What would you think of that person? Would it make you want to start a new relationship with them?
Hi, I just split up with my girlfriend of 7 years. We were great together, completely in love and talked about marriage and growing old together, we traveled the world together, everyone knows us as a perfect couple, we never fought always laughed together… however the last 2 years have been very difficult. We have been living together for over 5 years but the last 2 years have been a stressful living situation as I had to take in a friend that was in need. I also started my own business which kept me extremely busy.
A few years later I recognized my mistake. We would talk, but the timing never worked out. Either he was single or I was but never at the same time. Over a decade later…we had both lost our mothers. After some therapy, I finally understood my triggers. I realized the way I treated him was quite bad, so I finally apologized.
Never confuse SYMPATHY for ATTRACTION. Flowers, love poems, and tears of sorrow might win some sympathy from your ex, but that won’t win back love. When your ex begins to feel sorry for you their level of respect goes down and you become less attractive to them.
Look at it like this, every relationship has problems, fights, and disagreements. But if you two broke up, then there was something very wrong with your relationship. You need to analyze what went wrong and realize whether or not it’s a good idea to get back together.
That relationship lasted about 25 hours total. I had, more or less, had a fling with another girl during the first and second breakup. Mary was upset when she found out and dumped me faster than you can say, “Jeremy Glass is a garbage island covered in radioactive waste.”
Why good? Because if you’re doing all the wrong things to get back with your ex, there’s still room for improvement. This means that once you start doing the right things, you’ll start getting the favorable results you want.
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But no matter what you’ll have to seduce your ex and inspire them to get back together. Getting an ex back is often linked to your ability to be yourself and to not let your emotions or feelings change who you are at your core. So don’t try to seduce your ex by being someone you’re not; it won’t be sustainable anyways and your ex will probably see right through you!
Most of the time getting your ex back is still possible if you have the right attitude and mindset; if you are willing to be patient and to put in the work! Our experience in the field will enable us to advise you based on what you are currently going through.
Anyways, here I am about 2 years later and I have met many girls, went on dates, and finished my schooling. She’s also dated someone for a bit and they broke up about a month ago. Me and my ex talk lightly. [I’m going to start the 30 days from scratch anyways ;)] I started missing her before I even knew they were broken up. A lot of things seem true about me wanting to get back together with her for love, missing her, and honestly thinking she was the best. But its also been 2 years and I have realized so much about what I did wrong, and what I truly had. The motif is obviously to get back together with her but I know patience is massive in my situation.We have both grown so much, she’s in school now doing extremely well on her own. I have mature more and realized a lot of stuff, through suffering and beating on myself for the mistakes I made. But hey we are only human and learn one way or another. She is pretty busy so texting does not always work with her. I was thinking simply asking her to workout soon, its low key and something we both like.
“You look amazing. You smell amazing. You look like you are doing great in your life. You look like you’ve been working out. You look happy. You look confident, sexy, fun and attractive. You look like a catch. Why did I break up with you again?” – Your Ex
My experience is that some abusers are genuinely willing to learn and to apply what they learn so that they cease their controlling and abusive ways (note: the controlling stance as well as the explicit abuse must change for the future to look promising).
In this situation, DON’T FREAK OUT. Rebound relationships happen after a break up, it’s very very normal. But the good news is that they don’t last. And the reason why they became so intimate with this new person so fast is because it’s hard for a person to go from being so intimate with someone to being completely single. That is why most people (especially girls) will become intimate very soon with their rebound relationship because they are trying to get to that level of intimacy that they had with you. But usually, the faster the rebound relationship progresses, the faster it ends. They will soon realize that the new person isn’t right for them and they were just being intimate to quench their thirst for intimacy. And once they do realize it, they will break up with them.
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Just to update you, Saturday morning (6:30am) as I checked my phone, I received 12 missed calls from my ex boyfriend, he was calling me around 5:30 in the morning, but I put my phone on silent thats why I did not hear him calling. Anyways, I tried calling him twice as well because Im thinking it might be emergency thats why hes calling me, he did not answer. After 4 hours, he called, asking if Im calling him, I told him he is the one calling and Im just calling back. he said to just dont mind it and he is just drunk. I said ok. When I checked my other phone,he sent a wrong message, ” I was looking for you, as usual you left me if you have somebody”, obviously he is with another girl last night. So I replied, I told him to resend the number to the right person and probably its impt for her to know that you are looking for her yesterday. He said that its just a friend, who was introduced my his male friend. He said that he’s been seeing the girl for a couple of days already when the incident happened. She left him yesterday because all through out that night, hes drunk and been talking about me. Anyways, for this moment, I dont give a d*mn anymore.
Apologies obviously need to be made, most likely by both of you. Breakups are usually never one person’s fault. If you did something to hurt him, make sure you give him a genuine apology. If he did something wrong by you, you better get a sincere apology out of him too.
Plus, it gives you the time to get past the initial unbearable phase of missing him and into a more even-tempered, secure mentality. Instead of trying to figure out signs your ex still loves you, you’ll be working on yourself and getting yourself into a better mindset. It gives you the space to say, “I don’t need him to be happy – I can be happy all on my own”.
When a woman first seriously considers divorce she usually isn’t thinking about the theological implications of her desires – all she knows is that she is desperate to get away from her husband. She doesn’t arrive at this state of desperation by a process of calm deduction. She is simply reacting to the feeling that she “can’t take anymore.” Her departure is typically a sign that she has hardened her heart towards the man to whom she once entrusted it. Likely, she has been hurt over and over, and finally decided she will tolerate no more emotional pain. Her leaving may have been an attempt to coerce her husband to change, but more often it has been a desperate effort to survive. She sincerely believes that she cannot endure any more heartache, so she has reached out and grabbed onto the separation like a drowning swimmer clings to a life ring.
One thing to think about is whether someone is playing a power game to manipulate a return from the ex, or whether their process is one based on soul-searching and skill-building aimed at real personal growth.
If you break the actions of individuals then you will find either they are pulling or pushing someone. To show interest they ‘pull’ it and to show disinterest they ‘push’ it. When any girl rejects us, we naturally want her back and fill the gap. This is common especially in romantic relationship.
Though you have a history with your guy, you’re theoretically beginning an entirely new relationship. Let yourself experience all of the small relationship milestones as a new couple instead of going from zero to sixty.
My ex and I have been together for a little over 5 years unfortunately this is not the first time we have broken up and gotten back together seems always like a constant cycle but I always go running back when he wants. We do have a son together and currently pregnant with his second child which did not keep him from leaving me again. There was a girl from his job whom he started talking to she was aware of me and baring his second child but they continued to flirt constantly but I had access to see his text messages because when he would come home he would just delete EVERYTHING so I felt like I couldn’t trust him he has cheated before and I forgave him because I cheated before as well just that he didn’t know so I almost felt like I had to forgive. I confronted him about messages and he was upset bcuz he said I wasn’t giving him his privacy and said they were just friends but the way they spoke to each other seemed like they wanted more then just friends she constantly spoke to him about my relationship with him but because he would go running to her every time we had arguments. He promised to me that he would stop talking to her the way the way they did and keep it professional but he continued and I showed up at his job after work and found them still hanging out alone in the car not doing anything but still there. He did stop all messages with her but then started to call her every time he stepped out of the house I didn’t know what to do so yes I panicked went into needy mode and insecure mode and I feel like I pushed him more to her to begin with and so after a few days of trying to make things work he texts me and brakes up with me saying he’s no longer happy and will provide for his kids and that’s it but right after continued so hard to talk to the other letting her know he was a free man. He doesn’t admit to me that he wants her but I would see there conversation so I deleted the account that gave me access to there convo. Because I was just driving myself insane he was rushing so fast into a relationship with her I just couldn’t understand why and why while I’m pregnant with his second child. Im curious if he really has lost all respect for me and if it worth rekindling ? My family says move on he’s idiot and child and I deserve much better yes I do love him but its hard to just forgive what he has done. Seeing that we have a child together how do I do something like the no contact rule since we almost always talk everyday regarding my son ? And he seems to linger into something to where we begin to argue about us and I’m gaining strength as days pass yes I miss him but idk if its because he’s been mine for so long and the fact that he is now sharing what I loved so much about him with someone else or because he’s my kids father i feel so confused. I really want to do the co contact rule but its almost impossible to cut off contact since we have a child and I can’t date since I m pregnant what should I do ?
He keeps on texting me how fu*king coward I am for not confronting his family. I actually texted her sister already and plans to meet up yesterday afternoon. Because of his non stop texting telling me how coward I am, I texted her mom asking if I could meet her since I want to say something very important, and she told me to just text the details whatever it is because she is very busy. So I told her everything and apologized wholeheartedly. She said that she doesnt have anything against me and he knows that hes son is also drunk, in short, shes not mad at me or anything, she told me that we time will heal for both of us. I also texted her sister that I cant meet her up anymore and just told her the whole story, just like their mom, she also said she understand what I did,.
These 3 steps are based on simple psychological techniques that work extremely well after a breakup. It’s not some mind tricks and cheap gimmicks that you will use to trick your ex into getting back together. If you are planning to trick your ex or force them into being with you, you are just going to end up in another miserable breakup. This guide will teach you how to start a new relationship with your ex; a relationship that actually has a chance of being a long lasting healthy relationship. Not the same old one which ended in this breakup.
Of course, getting back together with an ex isn’t easy. You broke up for a reason—even if the details are hazy right now—and there’s a chance you could both fall back into old habits that just didn’t work when you were a couple.