Make Him Want You In The Worst (Best) Way
At first you never needed to know how to make him pay attention to you, it was automatic! You loved the attention, it showed, and he fed up on your reaction.
Should you want a little extra attention then all you had to do was maybe add a little wiggle to your walk, toss your hair over your shoulder, and crook your little finger and he would be glued to you instantly. Anymore, though, the only thing that gets that much love from him is the television remote in his man-cave.
You might be starting to feel a little bit unappreciated, left out and worn down.
Suppose there was something that you could do RIGHT NOW that will get his attention – in a good way?
You can make him pay attention to you and it is easier than you think. And no, you don’t have to walk around the house wearing nothing more than six-inch stilettos heels to get it (not that he would not like that…).
Check out these two ideas and reflect upon the last time you tried something like this.
Flirt With Him Like You When You Were Single
How long has it been since you flirted with your guy? First of all, it WILL get his attention. He’ll be more than a little surprised and quite a bit turned on. You will have to gauge this a little bit based on how long it has been since you have done something like this. We are trying to raise his blood pressure not a big red flag.
The problem with most relationships, not just marriages, is that no matter how much we might love each other, after a while we stop trying quite as hard. We get overcome with the difficulties of life and become a little bit complacent towards our mate. Re-instate the flirting and this lets him know that you are more than willing to try a little harder.
Maybe your guy will try to hide how much he likes it, but keep it up and see what doesn’t come up on his end..
Bring back the old standbys but see if you cannot come up with something a little newer and eventually take it up a notch. A few hair tosses and batted eyelashes can be mixed in but are just a start. Let him know how big, strong, and handsome you think he is, but do it in a way that you can keep it sincere. The last thing you want is for him to think you are making fun of him.
Maybe you thought flirting was only for catching the guy, but I assure you it is important in KEEPING the guy and getting him to pay attention to you.
Touch Him And Then Touch Him Some More
What guy does not want a woman’s hands on him? Do not paw him to death, but let your hands find him as a matter of everyday life.
Touch him. Men express and experience love in a different way than women. While it does not have to be sexual touching he is certainly going to want that at some point. And don’t you?
Run your fingers through his hair (if he has any). Rub his shoulders. Scratch his back. Rub his back; let your hand drift down below the belt. Hold his hands.
Walk up to your guy, embrace him, kiss him and rub his chest.
Reach out and touch him and see what an instant response that gets from him. Start to do this on a regular basis and if you are not getting a response I would suggest dialing 911 because he is probably not breathing!
In a world of constant distraction (like those #$%^& cell phones with text messages) you want to make him pay attention to you, not some electronic gadget whether phone, game console or TV.
Make flirting and touching part of your daily “contact” with him.
Make sure your eyes reflect that you are genuinely interested in him, attracted to him and that you are welcoming a response.
I’m pretty sure you will get it. If not, absent dialing 911, check this out.