So if the problem here is attachment, then how do you “detach”? The best way is to replace your ex with other people whom you care about and may assume the role of primary attachment figure. In other words, train yourself not to rely on your ex by spending more time with other supportive people in your life instead. For example, research shows that parents, siblings, friends, and children can all make excellent attachment figures.2 So, visit your family. Have lunch with an old friend. Remind yourself that your ex is not the only person in your life who you can feel close to, and you’ll find yourself needing her less and less.
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I have manifested him in the past and I will manifest him again. I know despite of all the ups & downs HE IS MY SOULMATE. I was once told that when something really good is about to come to your life, Satan tries to throw a lot of obstacles your way. This is the test of my faith my patience and I have 200% faith in my Universe and my love and that my love will be back and we are getting married next year on the same date as planned! “EVERYTHING is possible to him who believes-Jesus”.
Be the person he fell in love with. While spending time with your ex as friends, give him reasons to remember all of the things he loves about you. Accentuate the traits you know he loves, like your sense of humor or your empathy.
My vibe was affected by stress of school and radiated out into other areas of my life without my realizing…granted my ex never communicated how I was making him feel, but the breakup made me realize what had happened and how i can get those stress levels down and vibe up…I am prepared it is too late…he will never be able to share those vibes. But if he doesn’t hes also missing out because I feel good, a little sad it didn’t work out, but good overall.
So let go of over-thinking about the other. That’s part of what doesn’t work in relationships. Responsive is fine, Trying to guess all the time what the other person thinks or will do, that’s disaster.
Once the two of you do start making contact, you need to be smart about the manner in which you reconnect. Take it slow at first, go for a walk through your favorite park or meet for coffee at a place where you used to go for lunch.
So focus on your vibe by doing the things that make you feel good and make you feel whole. When you do that, you naturally help yourself move on from the relationship (and become massively more attractive to your ex in the process.
That’s all because of their vibe. Because of their negativity, their vibe suffers, and it doesn’t feel good to be around them. If their vibe was good (because they worked on being in a good mood more), then you would feel happy and excited to talk to them.
Did you dump him, or did he break up with you, or you both decided that it just wasn’t working anymore? It doesn’t really matter now. It’s over, and, chances are, you won’t get back together no matter what you do. There’s a reason why things didn’t work out. Sure, it’s possible to get your ex back, but that’s another story.
So my ex boyfriend and I were together for a year and 4 months. Honestly he was obsessed and so was I but i became too comfortable. He was my world and I never thought he would leave me. He would always chase after me and showering me with love and it made me the happiest person alive. One day he got tired of fighting with me and he dumped. told me he didnt want me anymore. I looked like a fool, i begged i cried i ran after him but he just walked away with his head up. it was so painfully. he blocked me on everything so i dont have contact but if i text him he will usually unblock to read my messages. it hurts so bad and as messed up as it is i still want him. I want him back so badly it kills.
Cheating can be done just to spite someone, for revenge, or cheating can be a pure addiction that is tough to control. We’ve all heard the old adage, “Once a cheater, always a cheater”. I don’t necessarily buy into that and I firmly believe that anyone can change, but again it all comes down to both parties of the relationship. You both have to want to change. And you both need to openly communicate and make sure that your relationship is always on the path you want it to be on.
If you want your relationship to get back on track, then you need to be humble and accepting what happened. You can’t get your ex boyfriend back by pointing fingers at him. You have to be humble throughout the whole discussion as this is the best approach to tackle this situation, and it will make your ex comfortable with you which will mend broken hearts.