my bf left me for another girl.he keeps telling me that i am nothing to him.he wants to b with the other girl.he has no feeling for me anymore.this has started more than one year ago.by this time he also speak to me but not on his own mood or to rebuild our relationship.he does so becz i request him to be with me at least for some hours or some minute… we talk only 2 or 3 days per a week…but I can’t stay without him I want him back.plzz help me…if this is possible for me to get him back as my bf again??
I am a 16 year old guy, I have had four relationships since entering high school, I fell in love with all four of my girlfriends, then I was asked to be just friends by all four of them. (Just to clarify, I was not going out with four girls at once, it was four girls one after another with a reasonably long time between). All four of them still hold a piece of my heart, and I am actually quite close friends with one of them. The most serious I ever got with any of them was making out, so my love was more than merely physical attraction. I have researched infatuation, and my feeling do not fit the definition of the term so I would appreciate not being told that I was just infatuated. Love is the most complicated mystery of human consciousness, therefore, I find it very probable that such a connection as the author draws between the memory of love and the capacity to love is an actual factor of the human mind.
Don’t beat yourself over it. These are all knee-jerk reactions after a breakup. The important thing is to realize they are mistakes and not do them again. Your relationship can still be saved if you don’t repeat these mistakes again. The best thing you can do to repair damage done is to follow step 2 diligently.
“In this part, I will need to know more about the basics of your past relationship, life and what you believe about relationships in general. This will help determine the overall category that your breakup fits in.”
I was angry because this email and I didn’t contact him although I still have strong feelings for him and still love him. Because of this email, I cut off 12 weeks no contact with him, but he didn’t contact me during 12 weeks. I know he is a stubborn man, so I try to initiate contact him first. When he received my email, he responded immediately.
To determine if it is the right decision to be together again, then do a self-reflection. Are you still willing to go the extra mile to win him back if your life is going on exactly the way you want to? If yes, then you must really love him that you want to bring him back to your life to make it more complete.
Hello guys this is testimony that this NC stuff absolutely works! Ryan you guys are geniuses dude. I got my girl back! I didn’t think it was working at first and I panicked a lot during the whole NC process. She even started messing with her ex and one other person. So my advice if you really know and want your ex back then keep pushing everyone! it works with time. also focus on yourself. This website is very helpful. Now to Ryan.. thanks dude again. I do have one last thing I need your help with. I realized that she clearly didn’t respect me or our relationship before because she was able to so easily start messing around with someone we both know and someone I didn’t like. Yes we are together now and things have been great! My question is, how do I get her to respect me more? she has not done anything to disrespect me since we got back together , however I want to know how to build strong respect from her, so that she is loyal to me no matter what? if she had respect, she would have been loyal and not cross the line with other folks while we were broken up.
Purpose 3: To let them know of something exciting that is happening in your life. Don’t reveal too much here. Just tell them something good is happening in your life. You’d love to talk about it, but not now. Because you both need some space and time.
I’m not sure what to do with myself at the moment. I keep my mind occupied, but when I think of him I completely breakdown. It would have been nice if he confronted me properly. I know after I left in those 4 months I said some horrible things to him… It wasn’t wise but I was upset. It was a really difficult time for me.
My boyfriend broke up with me last week and pretty much out of no where. I’m pretty devastated and having a hard time accepting it. I kinda went bat sh!t crazy texting him 2 days after we broke up. The day after, he would respond and such. The 2nd day he didn’t respond at all and I kinda went crazy, but I don’t think i went over the edge or the limit. 3rd day I didn’t not bother to text him nor attempting in the future. Do you think the 2 days I attempt to contact him will make me like a crazy ex gf? Yesterday, I saw he unfollow me on snapchat, but still have me on FB and IG. Hope you can reply back!
Once the two of you do start making contact, you need to be smart about the manner in which you reconnect. Take it slow at first, go for a walk through your favorite park or meet for coffee at a place where you used to go for lunch.
Be specific about what you are sorry for. Instead of saying, “I’m sorry for hurting you,” say, “I’m sorry for not returning your calls.” This will help convince him that you have genuinely put some thought into the things you have to be sorry for.
In almost all the cases of rebound relationship, people soon realize that this new relationship isn’t right for them and end it. So, even if your ex starts dating someone new, do not freak out. It’s just a rebound relationship and it will end soon.
Even though it can be easy to become obsessed with the idea of winning your ex boyfriend back, the last thing that you want to do is let it take over your life as it can just set you up for failure once again.
Going through a current period of separation from a 5 year relation ship and found this website very helpful indeed. I moved out after 8 months of abuse largely control , emotional and eventual physical against me. It was a slow painful devaluaion and discard.
If your boyfriend were serious about breaking up, he wouldn’t still be talking to you. Learn why his words and actions are actually him keeping the door to your relationship open for possible reconcilation. [otp_overlay]