Recall who initiated the breakup. Was it you? If so, did you do it after careful thought or in a fit of anger that you now regret? Was it your ex, and did he or she have specific reasons? Was it a mutual decision?

Talk to her – Now that you are hanging out casually and are building a strong foundation of friendship, then it is time to invite her for a talk. Do this after you spent time together as friends, so you can finally talk about your issues in the past freely and without any anger and resentment. Discuss your history honestly. Also, talk about whether there is a nice romantic future waiting for the two of you.

Keep in mind that a third of currently cohabiting and a fourth of married couples experienced a breakup at one point, so if your ex is still interested there is a good chance you will be able to win him or her back.[8]

For example, if your ex girlfriend breaks up with you then that means the “love life” aspect of your life has just taken a hit. Maybe after this happens you decide that you don’t have the drive to work hard at work anymore (wealth.) You also become very depressed and in this state of depression you pack on a few pounds (health.)

Admitting to what you may have done wrong will help show that you care enough about the relationship to take responsibility and that you’re not just trying to get back together for superficial reasons.

Spend time with other people. You don’t need to sleep with them, but spending time with other men or women will let your ex know that you are on the market for a relationship again. If they are still interested, they may decide it is time to step in and stop you from looking elsewhere.

Start dating again. If your old flame does respond to your advances and wants to start dating again, too, then it’s time to celebrate — but not too much. Remember to take things slow, to be a gentleman, and to ease back into the relationship. Enjoy dating, telling each other how you feel, and kissing and cuddling, and take the time to reflect on how much you mean to each other instead of rushing right back into where you started.

And that’s when you contact them, you talk to them and then meet them. Just as they lay eyes on you, BOOM. That’s the new and improved you. YOU version 2.0. They can’t help but wonder what brought so much positive change in you.

And unlike other books and courses that provide advice on using persuasion, tricks, games, and manipulation tactics that are ineffective, this course offers counter-intuitive psychological strategies for getting your ex-girlfriend back – strategies that have been proven effective through personal experience as well as over 1,200 personal consultations with men.

Remember to be yourself. Though if you needed to make a dramatic change (for the better) to be in the relationship, then so be it, but you shouldn’t walk around like a dog with his tail between his legs because you’re so set on making up on whatever hurt you caused that you can’t relax. In the end, your girl started dating you the first time because of who you are, so don’t forget to let her see the parts of your personality that she loved the most.

Italiano: Fare in Modo che il tuo Ragazzo o la tua Ragazza ti Baci, Español: hacer que tu novio o novia te bese primero, Português: Fazer Seu Namorado ou Sua Namorada Beijar Você Pela Primeira Vez, Русский: сделать так, чтобы ваш партнер поцеловал вас первым, Français: inciter mon copain ou ma copine à m’embrasser, Deutsch: Bringe deinen Freund oder deine Freundin dazu dich zuerst zu küssen [otp_overlay]