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5) I do want to be friends with him and be there for him. I realize I need to quit contact for at least 3 months. But he is moving out of state and across the country in 3 months (I was going to move up there with him after I finished my graduate studies.) I’m afraid that no contact will harm our chances at a true friendship later on.
Often, the hardest part about getting over a romantic partner is letting go of the person as an attachment figure1 – i.e., a person who you rely on for validation and support. Having others who we can trust to be there for us is one of our most basic needs as human beings. But because these relationships tend to be so close and intimate, most people have only a handful of attachment-based relationships. Furthermore, many people have what we call a primary attachment figure – a person who they are more likely to rely on than others. And for people in romantic relationships, that primary attachment figure tends to be the romantic partner.2 Romantic partners generally make great attachment figures because romantic relationships tend to involve so much intimacy, closeness, and interdependence. Indeed, some researchers argue that the whole reason why human adults even have attachment systems is so that they can form these intense attachments to romantic partners.3 Given the tremendous strength of these attachment bonds, you can see why they can be difficult to let go of, even if a person knows that they do not want to be with their romantic partner anymore.
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Consider counseling. Particularly if you were married or in a very serious relationship and want to continue in a serious relationship, you are likely to need couples therapy in order to discover the root of your problems and ensure that you can overcome them.
If at least the one who committed a totally out of bounds act does a thorough rethinking and relearning the result the result can be betterment and continuation of the marriage, provided s/he becomes totally clear that s/he will not repeat the behavior. If not, the marriage is in big trouble. At the same time, odds for successful resumption of a better marriage zoom up if both partners engage in learning.
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Break ups cause grief, the process is different for everyone. I was married for 26 yrs to an emotional abuser with some violence but mostly mental abuse. The father of my two grown children and grandchildren who are my saviours. I think this marriage contributed to a feeling of low esteem which made me first reject close relationships as I was afraid of intimacy and thgt sex was the answer. I was single for 4 years just dating then I fell deeply in love with two men at differing time periods both controlling in different ways. One lasted 3 years and we are still friends after 17 yrs the last one was for 12 years. I am still broken hearted about my last love, he withheld love and let me down, typical not answering phone for days then I found out he had cheated and he just denied and denied it. Seemed to want me but would pull away if we got too close. However we were happy in each other’s company sex was fantastic and we enjoyed similar things. He never wanted to know my family and would prefer to spend vacation time with female friends and family without me. I left him 18 months ago and moved out of town new job and nearer my family. We continued to see each other long distance saw each other last 3 months ago. Mostly I initiated contact but he always responded. Says he’s missed me but does not want commitment,crazy huh when we had 12 years together (not living together tho). I still miss him still love him and don’t see that going away any time soon. I have male friends and could start dating but at 63 not sure what to do. He is 50. I just take a day at a time i go on holiday with friends. I have more happy days now than sad days but it has taken a long time to get to this point. I am very lonely at times but don’t want to get involved again at moment. I have acquired two beautiful kittens who have been life savers and I am less lonely now I have them. I have great friends and family but I don’t think I will be the same ever again. It is harder as you get older. If you are young be kind to yourself and take a chance on love again. Don’t waste years grieving accept the break up as soon as you can and move on you have your whole lives ahead of you .
Try to avoid seeing him at all, even when you’re hanging out with mutual friends. If you do catch yourselves at the same party, you don’t have to be rude to him, but you shouldn’t spend too much time talking to him.
Look, you were fantastic while the two of you were together. You’re an incredible person to begin with. And you just side tracked a little. But, there’s no better feeling than running into an ex when you are at the top of your game.
That same night I got a call from him and he told me about how much he missed me and wanted to get back together. I was in shock and I burst into happiness! I didn’t know what to do with myself, that’s how happy I was. I had finally heard the words I had been wanting to hear in a long time. I had finally gotten what I wanted. I could never be more grateful.
While I Met Him And Saw Him On Alternative Days Regularly I went To Meet His Mom With My Mom Regularly & Thus We Both Were In Love At 1st Sight But He As Per I Know Is A Bit Shy In Sharing Some Of The Things With Me & So I Thought To Send Him A Friend Request On Facebook .. Then We Started Chatting & Then On Whatsapp He Proposed Me.. But The Next Day Fortunately I Wanted To Go For A Walk And There Was No Option Except Him To Take Me For A Walk.. So We Both Went & Hugged & Kissed Eachother.. But 1stly He Kissed Me On My Forehead.. & So Travelling at Many Places 20th Dec We Had Reached Kolkata & 29th This Was The Last Day , Date I Had Seen Him, Met Him, Talked Personally Etc.. Now Here I Want To Tell You the Next Step That Was Happened.. Both Our Moms Dont Know About Us That We Were Committed & etc Uptil Now Also.. and he proposed me Through Whatsapp and etc.. bla bla..Because There Was No Time For Him or Me To Give Me Rose & Etc… now i will tell u one more thing here, Yes,He planned Out The Future With Me & According To My Wishes.. He Was So True For Me I Realised When He Planned Out Future With Me & Everything That He Shared Included Me & My Wishes.. & Everything He Considered To Happen Was For & In Favour Of My First & This Was Whole Our Both’s Decision To Shift To A Different City That Was Us Being Together Forever.. But Then This Long Distance Between Us Was So Affecting That After 1 & half Month He Started Losing Out Talking To Me & That Was My Mistake.. I talked About The Past & The Reality That We Both Have Faced.. And Such Serious Matter Was so Deep That He replied very much less and from that time even talking to me on call gotten less .. I Thought He Was Busy.. But This Busy- ness Was not his reason at all….. now the thing is we both dont have any common friends also.. so once in the beginning he introduced his cousin bro to me on skype .. and so since then his bro and me started talking about me and my ex.. so the point is that his bro showed me all weak as well as strong points of my ex and i agreed bcoz he told me that he is the closest one to him uptil now… Now Everything Went Smooth But as I Said I Talked Even About Past Which Was My Weak Point And i agree was my mistake that i did it and now i come on to the break up Thing..
It’s been 3 months since the divorce, we’ve not contacted one another but I feel so lost. I’m trying to forget. I know it will take time but I’m finding really hard to accept the way I’ve been treated. I didn’t deserve this ill treatment.
I went through a period where I cried myself to sleep every night. I thought I couldn’t deal with this on my own, I felt really lonely. My friends were supportive but they didn’t really understand what I was going through. I always tried to get his attention by telling my friends to talk to him for me. I would wait day and night just to get any contact from him. I missed him so much to the point where I would call him but my caller ID would be hidden just so I could hear his voice again.
Reading your blog makes me feel so much stronger to survive each day and to heal after being in a emotionally hot-and-cold relationship with a person (who was clearly a narcissist!) and has hurt me so much. Love this, your words have truly healed a traumatic year xx
P.S. A friend of mine found him back on Tinder and Badoo a week after we broke up, no idea if he was back there literally after we broke up. I know he’s probably chatting to some girls, maybe meeting up, but I don’t feel that that necessarily means he’s over me. I dunno, denial much? Help :/