He can walk away and probably will if you treat him as property. Instead, view him as a customer. You want to make a loyal customer out of your boyfriend that isn’t forced to buy at your shop, but loves to “shop” at your store because he gets treated better than anywhere else. He then grows to need you, love you, and want you – every single day.

He broke up with me over a month ago and i am still upset. I know he is not seeing anyone else and he knows i’m not either. When we broke up he told me he wants to be happy (he’s very depressed). He told me that he loves me way more than i love him and it’s just difficult to deal with that because i think that 2 people who love each other should be with together. we have been texting and it’s either very short or very long and we also have our location on for each other. we were together for almost 15 months and i see a future with him and he is fully aware that i would do anything to have him back. i want to see him so badly but i don’t think he wants to see me. He’s going through a lot of stuff like depression and he gets lost in his thoughts and this caused him to think i was cheating or lying to him or that i didn’t love him. I think cheating is disgusting and i’d never lie to him. He also can’t get over certain things…. such as him not being my first sexual partner which bothers me because i am a year older than him and it just bothers me that he doesn’t understand. all i want is for him to be happy but i also want him to be happy with me and i am so stuck. i asked him if he would ever come back and he said he doesn’t know. everyone keeps telling me to focus on myself and i can’t because i’m only focused on him and i really have hopes that we will get back together.

That same night I got a call from him and he told me about how much he missed me and wanted to get back together. I was in shock and I burst into happiness! I didn’t know what to do with myself,  that’s how happy I was. I had finally heard the words I had been wanting to hear in a long time. I had finally gotten what I wanted. I could never be more grateful.

A breakup is always a difficult experience to go through, but it doesn’t need to be the end. Whether you were married or in a committed relationship with your boyfriend, you may be able to rebuild the relationship.

I ended up going back to him after 6 months. I called him and he seemed very happy and regretful for the things that happened in the past. We were talking normally again. I started going to his house and being intimate. He told me he really wanted to work things out this time. So I automatically assumed we were together in a relationship.

Remember that you go everywhere you want and have enjoyment but keep the core principle with your own self and that is “you are trying to get your ex back”. For this you need social network, you need pictures and those too of happy occasions. So whenever you are on a trial, or working out in gym, or hanging out with random guy, just remember to take pictures of every possible occasion. Only then you will beable to let your boyfriend see what you are into these days.

And you know what happens to a relationship where one person is a doormat? They end. Sooner or later they all end. If you want to get your ex back and give it a real chance, please do not become doormat.

“I think the worst you could do is jump into a new relationship. You will most likely just end up hurting the other person. Take some time off. When you start to like someone else, go for it. The hurt from the previous relationship will go away eventually.” –Amanda, 16

he broke up with me and blocked me after saying to me lets stay friends i didnt agree on friends plus we didnt have a fight he just broke up with me, after 3 weeks i texted him asking about him and he responded and i closed the convo,

“It takes me a while to get over anyone, mostly because of texting and social media. My last ex and I stayed in touch on and off for a year after we broke up. But, I learned that I needed to keep busy in order to cut ties to him. I went out to bars on weeknights instead of staying in, binge watched new shows, and I eventually just stopped thinking about him.” —Alissa K

I’d also like to know how to not feel a failure as a lifelong victim repeating the same poor choices to realize I’ve driven everyone I know and love away and trust no one. At 58 I’m lost of how to start.

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It’s me again. Since my ex-boyfriend broke up with me, he deleted his WhatsApp account but we are still friends on Facebook until now. It has been 3 months, I’ve put some beautiful pictures of me on FB at the end of weekends, and having a lot of my friends liked and comments for them. I’m happy with that. I have been feeling good about myself and become more confident. I really don’t know if he has checked on my facebook it’s just because I’m not focused on him anymore.

In regards to #3 above, sleeping with my ex-booty call only reminded me I wasn’t over my ex-booty call (I’ve told you before how I managed to care about him more than I should have over the year and a half we were together).

Most importantly, you shouldn’t forget why the two of you broke up in the first place. It’s easy to be nostalgic for a past relationship, but thinking back to the not-so good times will remind you of why you didn’t work out as a couple in the first place and will help you move on. Stop and think realistically about why you’re better off without him– maybe he didn’t support your goals or was obnoxiously immature. Either way, once you’ve gotten past the post-break-up obsession, you’ll come to realize that you’re better off without him.

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The best way to handle this situation is to stay calm and present yourself as you are happy in your life with him. If he meets you one-on-one then avoid getting into deep conversation with him. Just smile, say “Hello” and do your own business.

Now that you have been dating the guy, you probably know the things that turn him on and feed to his secret desires. It is time to put these things into action. This lesson was best illustrated by the Duchess of Buckingham herself. During the break up from Prince Charles, she was spotted in fancy outfits, hanging out with friends and seemingly having the time of her life. Not long after, the prince came running back to her. You have to possess what he wants for him to get the desire to have you.

Maybe partly he’s just selfish, or a bit immature, and maybe (just maybe!! I don’t know you) deep down you know you can be selfish sometimes, too? My point is, if you forgive yourself, it’ll be easier to deal with him, because you’ll know he isn’t reflecting you …he’s just ever after showing his own frailties and you’re moving forward!

Always remember that your ex is your ex for a reason and that reason defines where you stand. Try meeting new people and doing more things for yourself. Broaden your mind and grow and in time all thoughts of your ex will fade.

The reason most girls don’t do this is because they’re scared of being “mean” or “immature,” but when did having healthy boundaries ever become synonymous with being mean or immature? What’s “mean” about speaking through your dignified actions that you don’t have time for anyone that’s unappreciative of yours?

Once, in my late 20s, I was eating sushi with my friend Eric bemoaning a recent breakup. The weekend before, we’d attended a classmate’s wedding and were having a postmortem about the event in the way that disgruntled, disenchanted people in their late 20s do (i.e., talking shit), feeling hopelessly single and unsuccessful and eons away from finding everlasting love ourselves. I remember it was raining, and we had just seen Brokeback Mountain and I said something like: “I’m so lost; I’ll never find true love,” and Eric, one of those loyal, bearded, avuncular friends who always seemed to get it, said, “There are two kinds of people in their 20s. The A’s and the B’s. The A’s do everything by the book: They marry their college sweetheart, are knocked up in no time, have a perfect job, a white picket fence—the whole deal. And then there are B’s: The B’s can’t quite seem to find their way and nothing ever fits, not the job or the boyfriend, and they sort of stumble along a crooked road blindly, searching and searching and searching.”