Why is this the easiest? Well it’s not as hard as other circumstances, like for instance getting a girl back from another guy. You only broke up due to distance, meaning that the attraction she feels for you is still present. In fact it might even have increased, since women get off on desiring what they can’t have (you). Even if it seems impossible, it can be done.

The Ex Factor Guide (check out our review here) also serves as your ultimate solution if you want to get your ex-girlfriend back. It is a more extensive guide towards transforming yourself and being the exact same man your ex-girlfriend fell in love with, thereby making it easier for you to convince her that your relationship is still worth another shot.

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Wrong. The truth is a girlfriend wants to be important to you but she also needs you to have other activities in your life that don’t include her. Because, if you’d made your life all about her, it’d be a case where she sees that she’s 100% won you over, and women get bored of men they’ve won over fully. Why? It makes them think maybe they could do better, and that’s the last thing you want your ex thinking.

Great write up…just pretty much confirmed how i was feeling and ill continue on the path i was going, the thought is always there because its still fresh, just got out of a second attempt of dating a girl. first time was just great the puppy love stuff, no arguing just like we wanted, but then of course an ex came into the picture but the dilemma with this situation was is he was the father of her child a 2 yr old. we were fine one night, next day i instantly knew something was different, the texting became less often, no more i miss yous, etc… asked her what was goin on and got the “its just going to fast” line” she basically ended the relationship and i was upset yes but started to move on and told her we could try to slow down..i stopped contact for about a month on occasion she would talk but it was mostly short. one day she just called me out of the blue and said i need you in my life, well i guess the ex messed up and she came back to me, me being the nice guy that i shouldnt be i told her ok we can try again and we agreed slower this time and i said im fine with that. was ok for about a week lol, then same thing again, she lied about him the first time, it wasnt the too fast, it was him they were trying to get back together and it didnt work and she kept in touch enough to keep me as a option to go to. i had my blinders on at the time. the second time around she kept bringing his name up everytime we were on the phone or she came to visit, i finally told her to stop bringing him up its too much, and long story short she wasnt over him, i was strong and told her its not gonna work. it sucks to be in these positions where you still have feelings for someone, but if you stay positive and move on you can do it…think of the girl you dated before her if there was one…obv you got over that one since you tried with the other ex…like he says involve yourself with activities, don’t sit around and give your mind time to wander, dont try to stalk her fb, or anything just delete everything from that part of your life and you will see other opportunities come up. she didnt appreciate me and respect me enough to not bring the ex up so why would i want to go back to that again. i told her i don’t play with peoples emotions and i will never be someones option, i need someone who will be 100% committed to me and me only.

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ctionName=s,v.gatherContext=c,v.ofCaller=b,v.getSource=n,v}(),o.extendToAsynchronousCallbacks=function(){var t=function(t){var n=e[t];e[t]=function(){var t=c.call(arguments),e=t[0];return”function”==typeof e&&(t[0]=o.wrap(e)),n.apply?n.apply(this,t):n(t[0],t[1])}};t(“setTimeout”),t(“setInterval”)},o.remoteFetching||(o.remoteFetching=!0),o.collectWindowErrors||(o.collectWindowErrors=!0),(!o.linesOfContext||o.linesOfContext<1)&&(o.linesOfContext=11),void 0!==t&&t.exports&&e.module!==t?t.exports=o:"function"==typeof define&&define.amd?define("TraceKit",[],o):e.TraceKit=o}}("undefined"!=typeof window?window:global)},"./webpack-loaders/expose-loader/index.js?require!./shared/require-shim.js":function(t,e,n){(function(e){t.exports=e.require=n("./shared/require-shim.js")}).call(e,n("../../../lib/node_modules/webpack/buildin/global.js"))}}); hello my ex and I broke up about a month ago but we still were friends with benefits and just last Monday she got asked out by a guy who she told me she liked while we were going out. now she says she still loves me and wants to be friends with benefits but I want to be in a relationship with her. what do I do? please help At first, the decision to keep living together wasn’t really a decision at all — it was a necessity. We were both making $10 an hour in a city where most of our combined paychecks went to rent, and neither of us had other friends in New York with space to suddenly take us in. It’s been two years since that night, though, and living together is no longer something we have to do. It’s something neither of us wants to give up. For one I feel like she still loves you. For example she had a hard time deleting your number, to me she still wanted to be in contact with you. Two, walking away with the arm to the hand thing is a sign she doesn’t want to let you go. Three, I think she was buzzing you when she said she had another boyfriend because if she did then she wont flip out about you not calling for two days because she’ll be busy with her side kick. Two she had a hard time deleting your number and didn’t want to let you go. I think she said that to hurt you. And I bet she is stalking your friends to find out what you have been up to and see if you miss her. I hope it all works out for you. Good luck. It is vital that you understand who controlled the breakup and why it happened in the first place. If it was you, and your ex was against breaking up, getting back together might be easier than if it was initiated by your ex in the first place. Hi ryan..thanks for your reply..i will try to give her that space and time like you said..but i really need your advice on how to win her trust back and confidence and keep our love..what so i really do during this break? After a breakup, you feel depressed, angry confused, shattered, and are really hurting. At this moment, if your ex starts seeing someone else, it just tears you apart. You feel even more depressed and confused. And usually, when your ex is in this rebound relationship, they seem to become too intimate too fast, which makes it even worse for you, for example it took them 5 months to get physical with you and they are already sleeping with this new person who they are going with for only a week. Don't be too obvious about it. Don't say, "Don't you see how I'm no longer jealous when you talk to other girls?" Instead, just don't look jealous when he talks to other girls, and he'll figure out the rest. You have to do extra work on understanding what approval seeking is. The moment you started seeking approval from your girlfriend in the relationship is the moment attraction starts disappearing from your relationship. [otp_overlay]