Hopefully, if everything goes as planned, your ex will not be able to resist you and will start to warm up to you again. After that it should only be a matter of time until they are back in your life.
Me and my ex broke up a month ago she said she need space. We was together for almost three year. I really don’t know what happened we still talk on the phone everyday talking and texting we only hung out a couple of times since we broke up. Im just confused and don’t know what’s up she saying she wanna network. Can someone tell me what you think about this cause I do wanna be with her but I’m feeling mixed signals. We slept together one time since breaking up.
Your instincts will tell you that if you just agree to everything your ex wants, they will come back. Your instincts will tell you that your needs, your values, your desires, your goals don’t matter. Your instincts will tell you that the only thing that matters is to get your ex back. And for that, you can sacrifice everything.
Unfortunately one day she stopped supporting my dreams, our relationship started to struggle and we ultimately ended 65 days ago now. We tried as friends for the last month of it but it wasn’t working and one night when I told her I loved her, she didn’t feel the same, and we ended everything. No talking, no reconciliation, we just stopped. She reached out a day after to say sorry but it didn’t go anywhere.
Start by not contacting him any further. Apply No contact to give yourself some distance from the situation and to give him space. Spend this time to work on yourself and improve your life. Right now he is dating someone else, and you should not interfere, because it will lead to him thinking you’re desperate and start getting annoyed or resentful towards you. If you really want to be with him, you’ll have to wait until he contacts you first, or if they break up. Doing anything now related to him will only push him further away from you.
I know I probably shouldn’t say this because it will just make things hard for you and me both. But I’m always here for you as a friend Ivan, I care about you and want what’s best for you, that’s the only thing that makes this whole process doable. I’m sorry Ivan I really am.”
The reasons behind your breakup may be many but they all cause by one and that is again ‘loss of attraction’. Either it occurred in one night or it occurred slowly. Brad (the author of Ex Factor guide) rightly said, “Attraction Can’t Be Force”.
Given that she hasn’t grown, I don’t think getting back is the right call. But since you have demonstrated a lot of attractive qualities in focusing on yourself and cutting the cord, she may try to get back with you. To me, that seems like a bad idea though, given what a catalyst for growth breaking up has been
However, if you can be honest with yourself, you can admit that you don’t NEED your ex in your life – you CAN live without them, you CAN be happy without them, and there ARE other very attractive, wonderful people out there for you.
Before approaching your ex, you first need to sit down with yourself and soberly and honestly consider why the relationship ended and whether your motives for getting back together are genuine or merely reactionary.
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Now that you have gathered information about the different signs, factors, questions, and other points that will help you decide whether or not getting back with your ex-girlfriend is the right thing to do and what you can do about it, it is time to understand the actual steps, tips, and tricks.
After a week of no real communication we got together for a chat where he said that he didn’t want to cut me completely out of his life but didn’t want a full-on relationship at the moment but proposed that we began dating again to see if we could “reignite the spark” with no real idea of where it might lead. It could lead to us getting back together it might not… but we would be exclusive to each other .
But sometime in the first few months of living together — between starting new internships, fighting over how often the dishes were done, waging war against cockroaches, and spending less and less time together — we stopped being girlfriends and slipped back into just being friends.
Let her see you having a great time. Once you’ve given her some space and have worked on self-improvement, she’ll be much closer to wanting you. But now you have to put all the pieces together and let her see what an amazing guy you are and how much fun it is to be around you. Be strategic. Without looking like a stalker, make sure you’re hanging out in some of the same places so she can see what a blast it is to be around you.
Time heals all wounds, as the saying goes, but time well-spent heals them more quickly. Take whatever time you need to mull over your feelings and sort them out, but don’t get into the habit of wallowing in them. Push yourself to move on to more constructive behaviors whenever you’re able.
The cognitive analysis section of that post is right on, but in addition to the behavior suggested, I would widen it to say, look for other ways to make your life meaningful. Of course you want a mutally loving partnership with someone, but that’s not the one and only thing that can make your life worthwhile. (I have also found that intentionally going out and looking for a partner is seldom successful.)
At one time you were dating this person. Maybe it was serious, maybe it was casual. Whatever the facts you need to accept that your old relationship is dead. Not only that but you want it to stay dead. A lot of times women make the mistake of picking up right where they left off whenever they do get their ex back.
My wife of 7 yrs left 5 months ago we use to hang out and still do things together for are kids but she recently told me she is moving on a week later she tells me she in a relationship already apparently she been already seeing someone for 3 mths now I was crush because we have two kids together I admit in the beginning Are relationship started off bad u didn’t see when she was ready to settle down I wasn’t it seems to now she has more argue towards me the love please help me I don’t want to lose my family to someone else
That being said, my opinion is that you are probably better off in a relationship that is not so emotionally unstable… I would advice you to go “no contact” for sometime… If she asks, tell her you need space and time to think things out. Hopefully she can respect your wishes… Use the time to reflect on what’s important to you and your life… If you could connect with hotter, cooler women, is your ex still the one you want to spend the rest of your life with?
He doesn’t want to talk much about the breakup or the reasons, he’s never been one to open up and share his feelings, but he says there’s no going back from what happened. Yet, when I ask him if he sees a possibility of us working out in the long term, he says yes. I can’t tell if he means that or is just saying it, but what should I do to get him back in the long term? I have already broken the rule of trying to convince him and have tried remaining in contact with him, but I am going to stop contacting him completely now.
(Side Note: The system I have outlined on this page will work for teenagers in high school, married couples, people who haven’t seen each other in six months or two years and people who just got out of a long distance relationship. Basically, I am saying this system is universal!)
last paragraph about having the time to get perspective on how we are together and what do we mean to each other. And that it has shown me I like the simplest of things between us and I want us to have a second chance. I like how everyday was little better sharing it with him. Few things like I like to hear him giggle, or tell him about my dreams/jokes and him making fun of it, or discussing cricket or a movie or some random thing in the world or hear him talk passionaltely about his nephew or a theory he has or some political party’s agenda. That I missed him. That I want him.
my names olly im 18 and i might be going to jail for 6 months for getting forced into a robbery long story i know, but thats obviously why im not here im here to ask for some serious advice im in total love with this girl,shes the most beautiful woman on the planet to me and we used to love eachother so much 1 year and 6 months we were together i was stupid and took it for granted at first so i cheated on her and broke up with her then 3 months after it not working in my new relationship i decide to get back with her, shes totally over the moon that i took her back but then i was again stupid and kissed a girl at a party i know what i did was wrong but i got my act together and started treating her right i think we broke up because the trust factor in our relationship went causing her to not love me as much she broke up with me?? this was a shock i begged for her back which is so so wrong but she came back but then ended it again after a month then we got back together once more and it only lasted 3 weeks i was so clingy when we got back together i was always telling her how amazing and gorgeous she was she and i were planning on having a life together! from a young age at 18 this means alot really but the main thing is now were talking again she wants me to change into a good person again because i have a weed problem i smoke too much of it which causes my childish outbursts and anger issues which makes me look stupid, overall i really want her back ive not acted desperate ive only talked about day to day things with her nothing romantic just plain casual saw her this evening and it was great we couldnt stop talking her dad wanted her to go back inside but she wanted to stay out a bit longer but i feel like there is still something she even admitted to me a week before today that she still loves me but sometimes she doesent admit it well most of the time im keeping it cool now i met her today should i try meeting up with her again or what?? i dont want her rejecting me again and me looking like a complete tool u get me? im worried about goin to jail and her getting with someone else and im obviously not able to get her back if im sitting inside a prison cell for months i just need some good solid advice im a right mess atm and need her back but i need a good solid plan first