While it is quite challenging to figure out exactly how to get your ex-girlfriend back, note that it is actually possible. There are plenty of solutions out there that will help you win her back and let your love bloom once again. However, before making your move towards her, it is important to ask yourself first whether it is really what you want.
It’s important to have a plan to follow, because after a breakup you are hurt, emotionally drained and most of all, confused. And during this state of confusion, you are bound to make a lot of mistakes that will actually hurt your chances of getting back together.
Sometimes your girlfriend starts dating again before you can get her back. Rather than giving up however, there are ways of snapping her out of this rebound relationship and bringing her right back to you.
Hi the NC seems to be working. At work she told me she misses me and missed my kisses. She also hinted of wanting to get back together. What should I do? Should I continue the NC rule? or just go with the flow ?
Yes. You should send her a very quick and brief happy birthday message, but keep it very brief and end the message as if you’re not expecting a response back. For example, you can say something like, “Happy birthday… hope all is well.”
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My girlfriend of about only a month broke up with me , 3 days ago. She said “I think you like me more than I like you. & its not fair in a relationship. I look farther down the road in our relationship & i just dont want it. I don’t think I can reach that “love level” with you. I did like you, but after a couple weeks it didn’t seem like the relationship was going anywhere.” -how can you tell where a relationship is going only after a couple of weeks??? she was genuinely interested in me & we talked every day for over a month & then out of the blue just broke up with me after she ignored me the night before the break up while I saw her keep logging onto facebook….
The first thing that you need to do is simple, stop talking to them. You need to drop communication completely. You absolutely need to stop this overall. Many people feel the need to text them back, call them back, or just try to be in their sight. Don’t do that. You have to cut everything out. Walk away, stop talking, stop texting, and walk away from social media. When you talk to them after the break up, you’re going to end up causing them to think that you’re not quite as good as she once thought. You don’t want her to justify the reason why she walked away.
I was in a 3 year long relationship. We took a break 4 months ago because of his drinking.”surely not a breakup”. But then i hav done the worst thing : i had a guy friend to whom i felt an affection and happened to mistake it as love. But he was loving me, so when he proposed me during the break i accepted it thinking that my affection is love. Bt soon within a month i realised that it was nothing more than a crush and also i loved my ex/bf (since we were just on a break) so much who is infact my first love. My ex/bf came to know about all these things and now he barely replies to my messages. Please help me with this problem. Now i know i really loved him. He is my first love & guess it will be the last one too.
If your ex won’t respond to your attempts at communication, or responds angrily or negatively, don’t keep trying. Focus on your own life for a while. Either your ex will change their mind and try to contact you, or they’ll move on and it’s time for you to do the same.
Don’t fall back into old habits. Though you should enjoy your relationship as a new one, you should still remember the thing that led to the downfall of your relationship. If you find yourself fighting again, disappointing your girlfriend for the same reasons, or finding yourself feeling the same negative emotions you felt the first time around, remember to check yourself and to work on overcoming those troubling situations.
However, if your ex is currently calling you everyday or texting you everyday, then yes you should let them know that you don’t want them to contact you for a short period of time. Don’t give them any specifics. Just tell them to not contact you until you decide to contact them. Let them know you need some space and time right now.
My girlfriend and i started dating april 5th, after 3 weeks we had sex it was awesome, 3 weeks later she asked how old i was i said 46 and she was 28, after about a week she broke up with me because of the age diff, i went nc for 4 days, i sent her flowers and that night she stopped by my house, after that she came at me like a fireball, she came back bell ya, she stayed at my place most of the time after that, 10 days went by and she just shut off like a lihht switch, i ran after her like an idiot, i may have lost her forever its been 5 weeks since ive seen her beautiful faceut yesterday i fb mess her and told her i wanted my shirt back, she did not answer, i mess her again telling her to keep it and i was done, reminding her of all the good times we had together, and i said good luck, and she was the most beautiful girl in the word! She mess me rite away and said, i will drop your shirt off this week! Im hoping she wants to talk but i have a feeling she will shove it in the mailbox! What is my next move, what should i do??? Please help,!!!
Hi…been with my bf a little over a year. We love each other very much, but we just can’t seem to get along. We’ve broken up so many times than end up getting back together. Now we’re broken up again. I want him back. He tells me we need a break and be friends. I love him and I want to get him back. Please help!
Think of it this way, if you do this set of messages correctly then you have a good chance of getting your ex to feel the same feelings you are feeling and they will start to remember how great your times together were.
Prepare your words. The first thing that you say to your ex is extremely important. If you say the wrong words, you will lose the chance to get them back. You need to understand that even though you’re not together, there is a good chance they still harbor strong feelings for you.
I’m on day 31 of no contact. You told me to do 45 day no contact. I was on holiday: I’m back now and I feel extra worse, the worst ever. I miss him so much but I feel he’s still bitter and the no contact work. Can you please help? Obv after 45 days I have to do the text message but how do I do it if I’ve already sent a no contact message last month after 26 days of no contact? What do I say? And what if he doesn’t reply. Please help. Why am I feeling emotional worse? And he hasn’t even contacted me
In such situations, you have to keep your contact with your ex-girlfriend at very minimum. If you are living together, make sure you spend a lot of time with your friends. However, don’t bring any woman into the house to make your ex girlfriend jealous. Your ex-girlfriend will also bring a new guy at home, and it will hurt you only.
You need to amp up your sex appeal and force your ex to feel like they made the mistake of letting you walk away. Only then will your ex girlfriend be banging on your door, begging you to take her back.
Don’t sound like you’re begging and pleading; instead, make it sound like barely a question at all. Let her know that you’re going to try again, and hopefully you’ll get the answer you were looking for.
Think that next time you’ll meet your ex, she will have to admire you, for what you become, for how you managed to be a man, to stay strong even when it hurts, and how you become perhaps more patient, more quite, confident, and whatever you want to become. No pain no gain, they say.
There will be some days that you are going to wake up and your whole body will hunger to call her. So, instead of being a loser and breaking NC what you can do is use your UFC type of workout as an outlet to let your stress out.
Similarly if you don’t control your anger and only fix the mistakes that happened in the previous relationship then you only end up having leaky vessel which will break sooner or later. You have to guarantee that if you replace old vessel with new one then it would not happen again.
but I’m going to take some space now.” She got the message and now I wait. Wait for what? Her to hallar or her to fuck off. Either or, I will give it 2 weeks and contact her in a soft friendly message and see what’s up. I. Appreciate the post and straight up have given me hope to do the unexpected, from me ofcourse.
Learn to control you mind: Mind is the real source of most of the issues we face. It’s important to learn to control our mind so that we can stay focussed on our life ahead and not dwell on the past. I would suggest that you can try some meditation techniques to calm down the mind. The Hare Krishna Mantra meditation technique is something I found extremely useful. Here is a video about it: Meditation Technique