Show her you’ve changed. You can let her see that you’re a changed man without shouting, “Look how different I am!” Just spend enough time with her to see that you really have changed your ways, if changing your ways was necessary. If she thought you were too messy, put an effort into your appearance. If she criticized you for always showing up late, make a conscious effort to show up early to your next coffee date. Don’t point out these changes; let her see for herself and she will be truly impressed.

That hasn’t proven true so far, which may be because, generally speaking, exes staying friends isn’t that strange of a concept for queer women. As a writer named Phoenix wrote for Autostraddle in 2012, plenty of gay women break up, spend some time apart, and then later rekindle their friendship. This is how it goes:

Knowing that it’s important to give your ex some space is a sign of maturity. She’ll appreciate the fact that you respect her enough to know not to smother her, and that you’re mature enough to do your own thing for a while.

Breakups suck. Everyone knows that. Whether you’re the one who instigated it or not, whether it came out of nowhere or it was a long time coming, relationships are supposed to be happy places, and when they end there’s always at least some lingering sadness — and in some cases, there’s a lot. There’s, like a ton. Right after a breakup, people act out — they self-harm, or they drink recklessly; they try to sleep with someone else immediately in a misguided bid to dull the pain. They retreat into themselves and stop going out, stop enjoying life, spending their days binge-watching their favorite shows or listening to albums that used to make them happy but now only make them sad. They’re haunted by the ghost of their ex, almost — their old feelings cloud their judgment and suck away their ability to be happy. 

Most couples who get together after a break-up experience a renewed strength, and stay together for longer than they did prior to the break-up. Now you have to decide either you want to get your ex girlfriend to want you back or if you would prefer to move on and get another girl. It does not matter how much bad the situation appears, there is always a chance of getting ex back. So is that what you really want?

Dont abuse your privileges. Im not saying dont go out on a limb to ask her something, but know your limits, and know yours and her comfort zone. These next few weeks are going to be the toughest ive faced in my life. Ive never felt this way about a girl before. She means so much to me and i dont want to lose her. Lose what we have.

Although dating other women can help you in great way but it is not necessary step. It is ok if you don’t find any girl for dating. There are many other ways such as hanging out with your friends, working out in GYM, discovering new places in your city etc that can help you in moving on.

Still, particularly if your text is just a quick statement/congratulations, it might be best to forgo the “Hey” and just go for the awkward words from nowhere. In some ways this is even less awkward because it’s almost like you’re just totally normal acquaintance/friends who don’t even have to go through bizarre ex-girlfriend niceties.

Remember to be yourself. Though if you needed to make a dramatic change (for the better) to be in the relationship, then so be it, but you shouldn’t walk around like a dog with his tail between his legs because you’re so set on making up on whatever hurt you caused that you can’t relax. In the end, your girl started dating you the first time because of who you are, so don’t forget to let her see the parts of your personality that she loved the most.

If I had it my way we wouldn’t have broken up in the first place and would have instead tried to work through the issues but up until now every decision has been made for me which has been incredibly hard.

After researching over the internet, I found Michael’s Youtube videos. He talks about important aspects of a healthy relationship that I feel my relationship was missing. The thing that I like most about Michael’s videos was he was a relationship coach who has hundred of likes in his Youtube videos. I knew it is easy to get likes on your Youtube video but the interaction and feedback he was getting from his audience seems real dude to me.

1st – It will help you to avoid looking needy and insecure. As you already know, neediness and insecurity are biggest attraction killers so it is better to avoid displaying these two unattractive qualities.

This may true but the point is a relationship is a two-way street. That meets at a junction only when the cars are driven by rule following individuals. If one does something in rush the other will also do something of same sort and the result will be devastating. The same is the case in a relationship. You may be having temperamental issues but it is bad to say that you were the sole responsible for the breakage.

My girl broke up with me a few days ago said she can’t trust me, we don’t spend a lot of time together, my fault really, I miss her so much but she said she wants to forget about me, which she said is very hard, she got some bad advice from her friend and me working late doesn’t help, sooooo she feels like I’ll cheat on her we had talked bout marriage but never made any real decisions, right now she doesn’t wanna know about me, what should I do? Any suggestions?

Upgrading skills however is a separate issue from totally out of bounds behavior like verbal or physical abuse. Affairs, abuse and abusive anger are choices for which the doer bears full responsibility.

2nd Step: Now delete her from all messaging service such as WhatsApp, Viber etc. The only exception is don’t delete her from your Facebook but don’t view her profile. You can also temporary shutdown notification from her in your Facebook profile.