Even for the most accomplished Casanova, reclaiming love after it has been lost is a tricky endeavor. Nothing about it is simple, or straightforward, and contrary to what rom-coms have been telling you all these years, sleeping on her doorstep is not a no-fail route to changing her mind.

I hope Tara’s doing ok. I really miss her so much it hurts, and I’d do and give absolutely anything to have her back, even though I know she doesn’t love me anymore and will never want me again. I would rather her be free from me than feel trapped with me, and I hate myself that I made her feel that way and didn’t even know it. I don’t want her to feel guilty for breaking up with me. Please help her forget me so she can be happy. She will always be my beautiful princess in my heart, my one and only and the love of my life!!! No matter how many times she’s told me that she believes I would be happier without her, and complete without her, it simply isn’t true as I would rather die alone than not be with the love of my life for the rest of my life, because she completes me more than she will ever know!!! I love her so much I would never be able to describe it!!! But that’s also why I know I have to let her go, no matter how much it destroys me and tears me apart. She deserves way better than me!!!

so, I told her again today in a video recording(with a cover of a song) that i was sorry i hadn’t responded on her messages, but i was trying to move on and respect her decision of breaking up. which she again replied on with, she understands more than i know and she thinks of me more than i know. and she was sorry she spammed me and that she didnt think it through.

Don’t overdo it. If she hears you talking about other girls and sees you flirting with others, she may want you even more, but if you’re all over every girl at every party, you may look desperate or sleazy.

My ex is very close to two women, both who happen to work with her. At one point I was very close with all of them. One by one my relationships with them deteriorated. Both of them deteriorated before my ex and I broke up. In the beginning her best girlfriend viewed me as her best guy friend so we were all close. She would break “girl code” a lot and tell me positive things my ex(then gf) was saying and helping make the relationship stronger. Right now I don’t have that sort of friendship with my ex’s best friend anymore. Rebuilding that friendship just to have that friendship back is important to me, but I think it could also help me reconnect with my ex as well. I think it would help because she would tell MOVE ON, or give it time, or she still thinks about you, or she’s mad at you for this, this and this. Do you agree with this? Again, I do miss the friendship, but I won’t lie, the possibility of her breaking “girl code” with me again definitely has crossed my mind. I hope that doesn’t make me sound horrible. What are your thoughts on this?

1) Don’t ever be desperate to get a girl back. She may perceive it as not being “mentally strong” or “healthy.” That said, it sounds like you’re in a tough/desperate place right now. I don’t know you, but maybe the best thing to do is to take some personal time to respect or work on other areas of your life.

Seriously though, if you see any book, product or article that guarantees that it can get you your ex back 100% of the time you should stop and realize that you are probably about to look at something that was made up just to get you to buy it or read it. Ironically, a lot of the stuff out there that makes these ridiculous claims offer no value and leave you feeling taken advantage of.

What if your ex works at your job and still talks to you friendly? Should I engage or should I ignore her politely? Idk what to do here. Just to let you, we broke up last night and we argued like hell.

The main reason for writing this guide is to help you only. I didn’t write this guide to gain fame or fortune. I want to help men in fixing their relationship problems and cure their broken heart. I am tired of seeing bulk of new emails everyday from men asking how they can get their ex girlfriend back. This guide provides cure to fix relationship and help you in winning your ex back.

If you are on the edge of your seat for every text, response or call then you aren’t going to do well because you don’t want to rush this thing. Instead, you kind of want things to unfold naturally (more on this later.)

I understand it can be hard if you have to see your ex at work on a daily basis, however just proceed normally with your life as you normally would and avoid her unless necessary. It’s unavoidable to have to come into contact and continue to talk to her about work related topics, but since she is acting dry, do not engage in any small talk beyond that.

How and when to bring up the subject of getting back together so that she agrees (there’s a right way and a wrong way to do this – the former works like a charm, while the latter fails every single time).

yo im going through the exact same thing right now. the girl of my dreams and i were together for 9 months. i had been friends with her for about a year before. then we ended up together. the nine months was great. absolutely amazing. sure it had its moments, but every relationship does. then i fell into that comfort zone, where i didnt realize how bad of a boyfriend i was being because i was working all the time and i would be exhausted, and she tuned me out because of it. we just broke up 2 1/2 weeks ago and were still talking but, she seeing another dude, who was a shoulder to cry on when she thought that i didnt love her anymore. we had a place together and i moved into my boys extra room. now she doesnt want to stay there by herself so she may move in with him. weve talked and she seems like the breakup isnt what she wanted but, she also seems like she likes the new guy somewhat if shes willing to move into his house right after we broke up. but i can tell that she does still love me, and i want my fuckin girl back. she has until the 1st of january to decide if shes gonna move. i dont know what to do. i feel like if she does move into his house, it’ll be too late for us to try in the future. what can i do to convince her not to move into this douchebox’s house?