Now, we didn’t actually get back together “completely” for another few days, she had to think about it some more, but I knew after spending the night that we would.  So technically it took me a week to get to move back in with her, and things are SO MUCH better now that I’ve learned to appreciate what I almost lost from my life forever.

While there’s a chance you won’t like what they have to say, getting input from a trusted friend or family member will bring a new perspective to your dilemma. Limit the number of people you seek help from to two or three, though.  Hearing too many opinions will muddle your thoughts even more than they were in the first place.

I was LD dating a man for half an year. We have met once, and he said he wants to be my boyfriend but we reached the agreement to define the relationship when we meet in person. We havne’t been there because things have changed and we just stopped 2 weeks ago.

My girlfriend broke up with me saying she wasn’t ready for a relationship, I asked all her friends if this was true and they said that she’s never really had a bf. I was basically her first and they said she was scared I want to show her that I won’t hurt her. I’m a guy that isn’t looking for anything physical I am 16 and I’ve never made out with a girl. I was raised with very strict Christian morals and so was she I want to get her back, I just don’t know how to do it.

Before I talk about relationships and reveal my proven guide I want you to watch Brad’s video about getting ex girlfriend back. It is because for copyright reasons I can’t share Brad’s ex back techniques and without them you can take advantage of this guide.

So if you are a Category C guy, here is how to get your ex-girlfriend back: you need to move to where she lives to solve the whole distance problem, and then do a few things right from there, which I’ll show you now…

This is crucial because right now, if you’ve been dumped or if your ex isn’t interested in giving the relationship another shot, then he or she almost certainly thinks of you in a negative light. Even if your breakup was totally amicable and he or she has told you they still love you, the reality is that your ex just doesn’t think of you as someone they want to be with. If your breakup was ugly or you’ve made a lot of mistakes since the breakup, it’s more likely that he or she sees you as “that desperate loser ex”.

Given the circumstances, even if he moves on and dates someone else, he would not be happy and the same issues would occur. If he is genuinely depressed that it’s affecting his happiness and daily life, you should strongly recommend he seeks help and go through therapy to recover as ‘being there’ alone would not be enough.

He broke up with me last Monday after 1 year and 3 months, for me it was the happiest time of my life and we never fought and had a happy and loving relationship. Reading this has really helped me as I’m going into my second week of NC tomorrow. I genuinely think we both needed a break but I’m not going to sit here and believe that we’re gonna get back together I’m just going to do my 4 Week Detox, then go from there. Wish me luck . X

If the relationship you shared with her was a meaningful one, it’s unlikely that you’ll be in the friendzone (not for long at least). Even if she wants to remain just friends, it’s something you should take as it’s already better than her ignoring your messages and gives you more room to build up a stronger bond. Some people get the shortcut of their ex instantly wanting them back, while some others would have to go through a slightly longer route of nurturing the relationship up first as a friend before trying anything more.

So the one I love just stopped contacting and stopped taking my calls all of a sudden and everything was perfect the day before…but when there’s a call with another line,the dude picks up….do you really think the no contact rule will work in this case?….Please help

Even if she talks about something negative about you or your past relationship; you should not take it a bad sign. If she is sharing something with you (even if it’s negative); it means that she is trying to convince herself to get back together.

‘The question I often ask clients is ‘If I promised you that in a year’s time you would be in a happy settled relationship with someone else, would you want your old partner back?” It’s a real crunch question,’ says Susan. Answering this question with as much honesty as you can muster will immediately set your intentions straight, and could lead to some uncomfortable truths. [otp_overlay]