I spoke to independent friends who we used to see when we were out of an older generation who carnt understand why she didn’t see me, but did say that her ex the father of the children had been in prison beating someone up in the village, and she went quiet after he had been round.

Because the strongest way that you can affect her emotions is in bed. And remember, she decides who she wants as her boyfriend on an emotional basis. This means that getting her back into bed moves your goal of winning her back as your GF along nicely.

By taking the initiative instead of waiting to be invited out, you’ll show your friends you still care about them. Additionally, you’ll have a greater amount of control over where you go and what you do together, which should help minimize the chances of running into your ex or anything that reminds you of her.

Women are attracted to men who have a strong sense of self and a strong sense of values. If you misplaced them somewhere along the way in your relationship, the first step isn’t to apologize to her; the first step to getting your ex-girlfriend back is to find the guy she fell in love with again. Then reintroduce her to him.

Boyfriend who puts handcuffed to his girlfriend and don’t allow her to hang out with her friends is very unattractive. By controlling your girlfriend way too much you feel down in your deep heart and think you don’t have high value than your girlfriend.

Like I said, a little bit of jealousy is a good thing, but you can’t be too obvious about it or your ex will simply get irritated and your attempts at stimulating jealousy will have the opposite effect.

My girlfriend told me she did not love me the same way she used to. That I was more of a best friend type of love… She has new friends that go out alot and she also started to drink socially.. Im not sure this is a cry for independence or because her parents do not a good relationship . So i wondered if she imprinted her dads action on to me as I would treat her as he treats her and her mom….. I tried telling her I could do things differently and so on but she starts med school soon and I am not sure if she wants to be independent or what… I have not texted her and deleted my own facebook to avoid contact. She didnt cheat, we didnt end on a argument. I was the one who said okay goodbye. And thats the last time I talked to her ( 2 weeks ago). Any ideas on what i should do?

There are the ones who are fully past tense, the ones that we know weren’t right and who we wouldn’t bonk again even if they were the last person on earth. Then there are the others, the ones who we lost to circumstance, the ones who got tired of our crap. The ones who got away.

A year ago when I was struggling through my harsh breakup, if someone had offered me this shockingly simple solution to get my girlfriend back I would have begged to pay them $100, $200, even $300 for it. I would have gladly paid that much instead of going through those months of pure gut-wrenching agony.

One of the most important aspects to getting your ex girlfriend back is becoming the alpha male (more on that later.) For now, what I would like to focus our attention on are the qualities that you need to obtain in order to become an alpha male.

Although you say you don’t want a serious relationship and only want a friends with benefit type of thing, it seems to me that your emotions say otherwise, or else you wouldn’t really mind or care if he was talking to others or had walls since it should not matter. I think that you need to be more aware as well if you’re trying to push someone away, as sometimes we do that in the form of picking fights or faults with our partner. I suggest just focusing on yourself first to work on whatever issues you may have and build yourself back up before considering any relationship.

Me and my girl friend have been seeing eachother for 11 years and we keep bouncing back and fourth we have lived together and now we just seem to get together and get high and have sex I’m pretty sure she has dated other guys but I don’t think she has had sex with them, she is 45 and I am 54 ,I helped raise her 3 daughters and one of yhem thinks of me as her real dad , she agrees the sex is like none shes ever had and says she still loves me but isnt in love with me , she says she used to be madly in love with me early in our relationship but I wasnt in love with her till she left me for the first time, my question is HOW CAN I GET HER BACK AND KEEP HER???? HOW CAN I WIN BACK HER LOVE AND ATTENTION