It’s been a week now and we still didn’t talk but my question is.. does he still love me or wants me back? He is looking at me several times but for short (said my friends to me) and he told the teacher that he doesn’t love me anymore and that i maybe don’t have the chance to get him back. So what should i do?
Avoid getting too depressed as this might only cause you to have a hard time bringing him back. Work on improving your personality, instead. While you can’t find a magic button, which is useful in getting rid of all your negative memories and thoughts, it is still possible for you to avoid thinking too much about them by surrounding yourself with happy people. Make sure that you do not feel alone during your most trying time.
My hardest part in moving on in my recent break up was not knowing what I did or didn’t do. He gave me some usual “it’s me not you” reason and wants to genuinely be friends. I’ve known there were problems- doesn’t contact between dates but actually still asks for dates. After chasing for a reason for a while, he says maybe a lost of chemistry but I don’t get it, we get along very well on dates and we seem to have the same sense of humor.
I really enjoyed reading this as well. I was in a relationship with my high school sweet heart for almost 9 years…we have been on and off for the last two…so its been about a year since the ‘real’ break-up…he is now with someone else…I can’t help but sometimes see hhis profile pics with her…it makes me literally sick to my stomach every time and sends me into a deep deepp depression…I kEep trying to realize my attachment to him is of psychological nature but there is this voice in the back of my mind that keeps saying “he is your soul mate.” “You will never find anyone better.” I am filled with regret even though. I know it was just as much his fault as mine in regards to the demise of “us”. I’m working on moving forward and realizing there can be joy, beauty and love in my life.
Being a bit of an asshole to your girl is generally pretty healthy for a relationship…you’ve probably heard before that girls like bad boys and that nice guys finish last. Well it’s true, but if a guy has been too much of a bad boy to his girl, she’ll feel like the connection has died.
Luckily, since I have determined that this is an essential part of the strategy I have spent a lot of time refining my strategy for it and have even recorded entire podcast episodes over it here (link) and here (link.)
Now these are all the methods of turning your boyfriend horny and the answer to Winning Your Ex Boyfriend Back. Now the question arises. What if your boyfriend is applying the very same tactics on you? What if he is found mingling around with some beautiful young ladies and trying to impress you out? This is a serious issue.
now wen I came to know tht he zz hving this feari decided to stop talking with everyone but my boy is telling me tht he lost his pure love on me.. he is telling me tht he loves me but not like before I begged him very badly… for 8 days I cried and begged him….. v both are very close…. v are mutually into evrythg even sex…. now he zz telling tht he is tired of fear and he can’t be like before frdzz what should I do?
BUT… you have to pull it off in the RIGHT way or you could end up hurting the situation, and add to the fact that it can be tricky to pull this off in a breakup situation given the fact that you two probably have much more limited contact now.
I have successfully started cross-fit, a new job and become open in possibly moving for my career and taking the next step in growth. I have also sought therapy, opened myself back to God, and dove into various self-help books. [otp_overlay]