Amazingly though, a few months later, we were (and are) back together and engaged. We couldn’t be happier, and it’s all because of an old friend of mine from way back, who showed me that there’s a specific get your girlfriend back process which you NEED to follow if you are going to succeed in getting your girl back.
You are hilarious!! I am laughing so loudly whilst reading your articles….I’m scaring my dogs! I came across your website while I was googling and trying to understand why my now ex-fiance ‘assbag’ of 4 years breaks up with me (2nd time in 3 months), demands no contact then calls me, bawls during the conversation then tells me “he says he needs space” AGAIN…. he did this 3 months ago also…so now I’m thinking he’s emotionally inept and I’m left feel totally confused. But I am finding your articles are helping me alot….so thank you!!!!
Hi I meet this lovely fella about 9 months ago everything was goin great until 2 weeks ago when he said he needed to find himself.Tht night I reacted shocked and told him to just go we had a bit of a argument as this was totally out of no we’re but I felt for a while that I was putting more in than him and told him so he keep sayin its not u its me ur brilliant bla bla etc. he broke up his sim card also. I thought givin him space would work after a week I went round to his flat to talk and he wouldn’t open the door even though I knew he was in so i put a letter through his letter box saying we needed to talk but he ignored I think so tht night I started the nc rule then on Tue he text me from his new no he was so sorry with kisses so then i waited a few hours then text him back we need to talk he never text back so i text him a nice goodbye text saying look I know u hv to do wht is right for u and i guess talkin would b a waste of time i hope u find inner peace and b happy to take care. he text back appreciate tht with kisses. insight he was feelin depressed and emotional unavailable I was a bit needy im now on my sec day of nc now I really care and love this man wil he come back ?
Hi EBR Team, My ex-bf and I were in a serious relationship for 4 years and were planning our wedding. A month ago he said he doesn’t think he can marry me because of our different cultures. He also said he doesn’t want mixed children anymore and his family is embarrassed of my dark skin colour. We broke up and I implemented no contact for 30 days, where I was improving every day and posting.
While that strategy might have been effective for Sparks, it’s probably not a sure fix for everyone. So to find out just how long it really takes to get over an ex, we asked these women to share their post-breakup timelines and how they successfully moved on.
The absolute best advice I can give is to give yourself some real time to heal after a breakup. If you want to get your ex boyfriend back, it is imperative that you are in the right state of mind before you act on anything.
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Win over his friends. Friends can be a tricky jury. They might have been part of the reason your relationship went sour in the first place. Friends hold a power that no other people hold in your ex-boyfriend’s mind. If they didn’t like you before, your task is to reveal that you’re not as bad as they once thought. Now that you aren’t taking up all of his time, you probably won’t seem so awful to them anyway. If you can cast yourself in any kind of sympathetic light, do so. Perhaps those comments made behind your back will go from negative to positive (definitely a good thing as you try to get your boyfriend back).
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Take things slow, and don’t pressure her to get back together if she isn’t ready. Work on your issues and prove to her that you can be the man she wants you to be and things would probably work itself out from there.
Trying to convince your ex why he should come back just pushes him further away. It reinforces why he’s better off without you, because you appear needy and desperate and like you haven’t heard anything he’s tried to communicate. Needy and desperate are traits that will kill any attraction any man may have for you.
Hey Luke, it sounds like you’re on the right path. Just don’t put too much pressure on her to get back together with you or she may walk away. You can always tell her how you feel, but add that you respect her wish to focus on school and you’ll wait for her as a friend first or something.
Text messages are great for building attraction with your ex. They are short, they are personal and you can be sure your ex will read your texts. If used correctly, you can condition your ex to light up in excitement whenever they see a message from you. (Read this more detailed article on getting your ex back with text messages.)
I made a mistake and that caused me losing the love of my life, no I didn’t cheat I decided to listen to my friends instead of my heart. I heard rumors and I believed them without talking to him about it and to be honest, this might be the biggest mistake of my life because now I don’t have him with me and that sucks and I still love him but he deserves better not someone like me that could doubt him at any moment when he’s telling the truth. I love him and that’s why I have to let him go. I have my insecurities, yes and I had a lot of people betray me in the past which isn’t an excuse for my behavior and why I should doubt him. I learned the hard way and if I have a relationship in my future I will make sure I don’t make the same mistake twice. learn from me and trust your partner, talk to him/she about and don’t make my mistake because it will hurt.
Pick ONE friend that you trust or better yet, stop yapping to your friends. Comment on here. You never know which “friend” will go tell the wrong “friend” of his that you’re struggling. No dramatic, long, drawn out depression and good-byes. Let him wonder what in the hell you are avoiding him for.
WOW I don’t “KNOW” you…But I really like you! ?You are HILARIOUS and REAL and it’s clear that you’ve truly been “there” before by the things that you say. It’s like your taking these feelings and thoughts straight from MY mind and typing them out. I LOVE what you stand for (and what you don’t stand for). Well my question is in the last paragraph from what’s above, when you say something like : after getting your ex back he will eventually SHOW you (if we took your advice about showing we’re not putting up with the bs) that the break-up was a good thing.- Are you saying you feel they’ll still be the same way they were BEFORE the breakup (a f*cktard?) or they will possibly have changed for the better due to us setting those “what’s not acceptable” boundaries? And do you always feel that they would ONLY want you back due to a wanting to be in control thing not ever because they actually love you? Just wondering
I just to ask i need my boy friend back he is very nice actully he loves me a lot but i dont know why he left me alone i want him back at any cost cause my life means nothing without him he is my best friend i dont have any friend i had very bad past but he expect me as i am loves me like a baby care like a parent hold me like god he is my everything actully were living near a place but now am far from that place so when i start living in far place i did not get that much to talk that much so our missunderstanding are becoming more and more day by day one he said i m furstred with u and dont want to talk to u i said ok really l will not call you then at night i was very much anger and use abuse word to him that was why he is not talking to me please help me i am stupid mad u can any thing but i want him back i love him very much i really need him please help please
Getting your boyfriend back if he’s dating another girl requires a somewhat different approach. What you do will depend upon the circumstances of your breakup, how much contact you have with him, and whether the two of you still remain friends. But in the end, you can still salvage what you had. No matter who your ex-boyfriend is with now, there are ways to use your past history to your advantage. Learn the secrets to unlocking his buried feelings, and ways to bring them to the surface without him knowing that you even did anything. When he believes he’s thinking about these things all on his own, then you’re one step closer to reconciliation.
The EBP requirements serve as a guideline but are not set in stone since every relationship situation is different. Currently, if you want a relationship where how you feel is accepted, and a partner who isn’t naive, you’ll have better luck in walking away and finding someone who fits that. If you still want to continue a relationship with her, then you’re going to have to accept that being jealous and telling her off on being naive (even if you’re right) are things that would only push her away. Instead of becoming angry (again, even if you have the right to be), I suggest talking to her in a more understanding way as that might make her more receptive to what you’re saying as opposed to telling her off and she becomes defensive and justifies the other person’s actions.
I ended up seducing him and we ended up doing it. But after that he hasn’t contacted me or anything. It seems like this time he’s actually has moved on for the 1st time and he wants to be faithful to the girl.
If you focus your attention on spending time with your friends or pursuing a new hobby, you will have less time to miss your ex-boyfriend, which can help you avoid the pitfalls of getting back together just because you’re lonely.
My hardest part in moving on in my recent break up was not knowing what I did or didn’t do. He gave me some usual “it’s me not you” reason and wants to genuinely be friends. I’ve known there were problems- doesn’t contact between dates but actually still asks for dates. After chasing for a reason for a while, he says maybe a lost of chemistry but I don’t get it, we get along very well on dates and we seem to have the same sense of humor.
Instead of thinking of the past and what happened, you need to re-write the past. You need to re-create the negative experiences and turn them into positive ones. You need to re-write your arguments into conversations about your future. You need to re-write your break-up and turn it into him saying he wants to marry you, and so on…
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If you are not interested in dating others or leading them on, meet up with groups for movie night or spend time with a friend of the opposite sex. Just being around others who are single might be enough to make your ex a bit jealous.
I met a guy whilst on holiday in Egypt. He seemed really lovely and we saw each other every day and eventually went to his flat ad stayed there at night with him so we were spending 24 hours a day together. Hr said he loves me and wants to marry me I didn’t take it too serious but then I found I had called for him. On my last day he gave me his number and Facebook. When I got back to England I looked at his Facebook it was all women tourists which he has commented on their wall my love habibi and sending hearts to them. The two profiles I could see were a year ago these comments were made but I would not have gone there at all of I had of seen this to start with. He also had one for Arab friends. I went to finish it because I am 43 and he is 26 and I can’t be doing with the drama of Facebook. He never added me but said he would delete his facebooks it took him a couple of weeks but he did it. I said messenger as well because of all these women he had contact with. He said he would and he did. We have spoken everyday and night then hr started no messaging me at night his cousin told me he takes women out shopping at night for money so when he wasn’t messaging me he was doing that and he was saying no women. I made a fake profile of a woman who was gorgeous and he added her on messenger before he deleted it.It came to a massive argument he said I was jealous etc and he said he wanted to finish it. I did a terrible thing and emailed his work and told them he was taking women outside the hotel (they aren’t supposed to) and he got fired. When I got a response from the hotel they said this isn’t the first or last time it will happen that’s why he got fired. We still were speaker he was still telling me he loved me and messaging me but he was sad about loosing his job and I feel so guilty I just got sick of the lies (if they are lies) I was to meet his family and then we were planning to get married. I forgave him for all that because I know I can be jealous. I don’t know if it because I wouldn’t act like this when I have a boyfriend. Anyway a week ago he sent me a message saying I will need forgive you for loosing my job no work etc. Although I had sent money equilvilent to his monthly salary that he lost and said I would do it every month till he gets a job because his family rely on HIM for money. We had a n arguement he blocked me off wats app downloaded messenger again. I downloaded viber a day later and said I loved him he said he loved me and missed me and hr wasnt going to delete messenger although he says he wants this to speak to his family he has gone to see his family so I wander is he speaking to the women he had on Facebook? He hadn’t initially told his mom about me sending and email to his work bit has now told her she says I am bad and he isn’t to marry me he said loves me still I said I will leave him till he has got rid off messenger. He said OK I love you and that was three days ago. I read this article and feel better but I do miss him but do wander is it worth all the bother with this silly apps x
One of the most difficult parts of being in love is having that love end on you. You cry, you feel shattered, and you feel like things will never be okay in the world again. Let me be honest with you here, ladies. I’m thirty six years old. I’ve been in love three times in my life and have cared about plenty of boyfriends. There are times when I feel like after being hurt so deeply or so often I’ll never find love again. Sometimes, I even wonder if there’s something wrong with me that I haven’t found love like everyone else.
It is important to grieve the loss of the relationship and to feel and release the pain that resulted from the broken relationship. This takes time. Forgiving any hurts is another helpful piece of advice. This is not easy but you may slowly start to realize that UNforgiveness hurts you more than the other party. It may take a while to get over a relationship but even if you can see a little progress over time, I am sure that will encourage you. I have heard that grief doesn’t present itself in a neat package. Sometimes it is two steps forward and three back. Time also helps but I don’t necessarily think time all by itself is the answer. I hope this helps and/or encourages someone.
For every one thing that brings your man closer to you there are five things that could drive him away. Before you act you must understand what these things are! Making up and winning back an ex can sometimes be a long road, so don’t make it any longer than it has to be. Learn how patience, acceptance, and getting on with your daily life can make you stronger, happier, and much more attractive to him than anything else you might do.
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i am an 18 year old male, i broke up with my ex girlfriend almost 3 months ago, we was together almost 5 years, we had a strong bond but we went through an unfortunate abortion, during this situation she got attached to the baby im her stomach but wasnt finacially stable to take care of a child, her anxiety got really bad and she pushed me away and wouldnt let me near her, after almost a month of this she broke up with me stating that she had lost feelings and doesnt want to be with me anymore, we have broken up and got back together alot in the past, but this time is different, i acted irrational and constantly begged and stated how upset and lonely i was without her, i irratated her to the point of she blocked me on afew social medias, but she left 1 line of communication open via instagram, i often message her but she doesnt reply but she reads the messages, if she doesnt look at the message fast enough i panic and irratate her with more, she then replies with “Go away, leave me alone, move on i want you to” i ask her why we broke up and all she says is ‘everything’ thats all she says, i truley believe there is a chance but she is being too stubon to admit it, im really confused and in a bad place, there was never any cheating, im so worried that the no contact rule will not work, although if it doesnt im still in the same place im in now so what can get worse… i read alot of these getting ex back websites but im never really satisfied with the information as every situation is very different, i really do want her back, and the relationship will be great if i get the chance to reconcile it, im really in need of some help im looking forward to your help and also the no contact daily email help as i need as much help as i can get.
A rebound relationship will impede your progress in truly getting over your ex. It will do nothing for you. In fact, it will only ADD TO THE PROBLEMS you are having emotionally. Besides, you don’t want to use somebody to make yourself feel better. It’s bad karma.