My girlfriend broke up with me a few weeks ago and I am having a tough time letting it go. I know all the advice says to move on and get over it, and I almost have. I still have feelings of resentment towards her and wish to get her back.

Complete No Contact, whether it be the 21 day plan, the 30 day plan, or the 45 day plan. Try not to focus on your ex. Instead, put your energy towards doing things that make you feel good about yourself and your life. That is the most effective method to getting your ex back, and all the success stories listed on the site embraced No Contact Fully.

Please do tell me how I’m going to get him back after being apart for so long, plus we don’t even live close together so it’s not like I’m going to run into him. So I want to know how I’m going to get him to spend time with me and how I will get him back or get him to want me.

My ex is very close to two women, both who happen to work with her. At one point I was very close with all of them. One by one my relationships with them deteriorated. Both of them deteriorated before my ex and I broke up. In the beginning her best girlfriend viewed me as her best guy friend so we were all close. She would break “girl code” a lot and tell me positive things my ex(then gf) was saying and helping make the relationship stronger. Right now I don’t have that sort of friendship with my ex’s best friend anymore. Rebuilding that friendship just to have that friendship back is important to me, but I think it could also help me reconnect with my ex as well. I think it would help because she would tell MOVE ON, or give it time, or she still thinks about you, or she’s mad at you for this, this and this. Do you agree with this? Again, I do miss the friendship, but I won’t lie, the possibility of her breaking “girl code” with me again definitely has crossed my mind. I hope that doesn’t make me sound horrible. What are your thoughts on this?

Where Crazy Ex-Girlfriend’s typically keen understanding of Rebecca and her mental problems somewhat falters is in the season-two finale, when we see flashbacks of her time at a mental hospital. We learn that Rebecca left Harvard after a romantic entanglement with a college professor. She set fire to his belongings with alcohol and found herself forced into a court-mandated psychiatric hospital stay. The series only briefly depicts Rebecca’s time in this hospital — the scene amounts to less than a minute. It would be ludicrous to expect the series to depict a mental hospital stay with deft precision in such a short scene. Still, it harkens to the more prosaic renderings of this experience that are littered throughout pop culture. It’s shot, like the other flashbacks, with a gray bluish tint far away from the saccharine, bright palette that the series typically hews toward. Rebecca sits on a decadent lawn with two other patients lost in their own worlds. Two nurses watch over them. As a nurse hands Rebecca her medication, she asks the other, “What’s with this one?” in a gruff manner. In just a few seconds, Crazy Ex-Girlfriend reproduced the ingrained cinematic mores of mental hospitals that are always depicted as grim, regimented hells, no matter how necessary they are for the character.

3rd Step: Collect all physical objects like Teddy Bear, Gift set, necklace, bangles etc and put them into a box. Put box somewhere in your home where you don’t go often or place that is difficult to reach without someone help.

Hi, what about people who have mood problems or other issues? I’ve ADHD and this can affect my mood and I go through depression as well. ADHD affects my impulses. Though it seems odd, I do consider myself fairly laid back and amiable, it’s just sometimes my brain does things.

I always take my bf back because of pity and feeling sorry for him. I’m not happy and I want to run as far as I can from him. I am not into him anymore. He disgusts me and anytime I want to go he follows me like a dog…he is too needy and I cannot stand him. I want to be with my ex so bad, he is all I need. Distance has separated us but I am back and back to fight for him but it’s hard to get him to leave his girlfriend he lives with. He says he wants to and he is not in love with her but he just cannot pack up and leave. Why can’t he?

but now we broke up after 2 years and 3 months, 3 days ago. there wasnt a fight in the last conversation we had, the break up conversation. one of the things she told me is that she still love me she love me very very much and still cares, but shes just not inlove with me anymore. 2 days ago before the break up things were fine, but our relationship was a bit rocky in the past weeks i even gave her space. her aunt thats only year older then me and lives opposite me said that when she spoke to my ex she was excited for all the dates that was i taking her on, and then she just said that we should leave things but hope we can still be friends cause we were always good friends. i just agree to the things as broken as i was. her parents and family was all in shock of the news and said that i should maybe just give her some space and time just to get her head straight. some clothes of mine is still at her place and rings etc. she havent said or ask i must come fetch it yet, also on instagram photos of us is on there on her profile, havent removed it yet. and i admit that we did fight and alot the times it was my fault but i was things such as she smokes and stuff and what kind of boyfriends would let a beautifull girlfriend do that if he doesnt smoke. i havnt spoken to her since we decided to leave things.

If you are in a situation like this, the best thing to do is just be cool about it. Do not give your opinion about their new relationship and let it run its course. Just be cool about the whole thing and try to concentrate on your life rather than theirs. There are a lot of things that you need to do after a breakup and before you can get your ex back. That’s what step 2 is all about.

You’re overthinking it.. The nc rule is for you to focus in yourself, so that when you initiate and try to rebuild rapport, you’ll be thinking rationally instead of being emotional. We only recommend up to three tries after nc.. after that if it doesn’t go well, that means it would be better to move on.

If you are jealous type then you have to live with mindset that “no one in her life has higher value than you”. Don’t make your girlfriend your entire life instead make your own career along with her.

You are right, the respect thing in the relationship is a big issue and you should have a serious but calm discussion about it with her, in fact you both should let one another know what is important in order to make this new relationship a happy success for both of you. You don’t wanna run into the same mess as before.

After some time apart, during which you have worked on the ME-component of a former-WE and also helped the ME, become a better version of your former self, reach out to her. Do this in a non-committal way and just extend a hand of friendship. Rebuild your camaraderie, keep it light, and show her a NEW you. Take it slooooow but build memories, take a tiny step toward a healthy relationship every day and forge a deep, meaningful connection.

This is where I think I went wrong. I told her I would try to make it to her prom in January although I never promised because I know better. Tickets to Europe aren’t cheap and I had no guaranteed income at the time. As it got closer to January, I had pretty much realized I would not be able to afford a ticket. So, we kind of agreed to stop talking and I figured since her dad died, she deserved a male companion to actually be by her side instead of selfishly keeping her for myself. So I told her maybe find somebody to go to prom with and maybe in the future things might work out.

That’s correct: every time you contact your ex after breaking up, you could be doing more harm than good. I’ll explain in more depth below, but for now you just need to remember that contacting your ex girlfriend is an absolute no-no for the first few weeks.

It would depend on your knowledge regarding what she seeks for in life. If the financial security it something more important to her, then you might want to consider walking away as it will be hard to compete with her boss on this aspect. If you know that she may be going through a tough time, and merely needs momentary financial support desperately that you cannot provide, then you could consider a second shot if given the chance. However, do bear in mind that she walked away from you once already, and if you get back with her, she may do the same again if ever she needs something you cannot provide.

If your relationship is ended then I am sure you display one of these fatal characteristics (list is below). These fatal characteristics kill attraction and remove love from the relationship. That is the reason I called them “Six Deadly Qualities”

Before making a move to make your ex-girlfriend a part of your life once again, it is important to gain a full understanding about who controlled the actual break-up. You also need to determine the exact reason why it took place. If you were the one who decided to break up, leaving your ex-girlfriend totally against it, then rekindling the relationship may be much easier.

I cannot apologise enough for what’s happening now. And yes everything thing I read from you makes me feel guilty for doing it, but I’m afraid that’s as far as my emotions are going now. As time slowly passes the guilt lessons and I’m even more sure in my decision. I know these words will hurt but I can only sugar coat things so much. I’m sorry.”

Prioritize yourself – This is the perfect time to prioritize yourself. Start hanging out with your friends once again. Focus on your career or do some extra-curricular activities, particularly those that you have been longing to do. Never appear too needy. Make your ex miss you more and do the things that you have once only dreamed of doing. This is the key to regaining back your self-worth and sense of self, allowing you to recover fast and find out whether you still really love her.

The week in advance method is just like it sounds. You call him a week in advance and ask him out. The obvious advantage to this is that he has time to clear his schedule and make time for you ;). The obvious disadvantage is that you are laying a lot of your cards on the table and rejection will certainly hurt your feelings. Speaking of rejection…

Hi, my ex girlfriend broke up with me two months ago, we were together for 10 months. I tried to beg her back, then we agree on NC. In the first 2 weeks it was impossible to accomplish couse I had to move out, and my stuff was all over the place, it took me time and she kept texting about my stuff. The last time I was there, we talked, and I managed to invite her to lunch, as a date. I’m pretty busy in general, that’s why the date was a week after that. We texted each other every day on Facebook, always she started the discussion. The lunch went well, but after she texted me she had second thoughts about it, like ‘it’s not a good idea and she thought about canceling… But it was so good and she likes me in the moment but we still have problems’. We continued texting. Then I went abroad one of my friends, originally this trip was planned as a romantic one with my ex. She kept on texting me. When I got home, I asked her out again, she was happy to say yes, then a few hours later and out of nowhere, she changed and said she is too bad and I need to run away from her, couse she is gonna hurt me… I tried to refuse it. No success. So goodbye and start NC. 10 days after she texted she wanted to talk to me. She seemed desperate (and I didn’t know your rules about NC) so we agreed to meet and talk on a monday. The next day was my birthday, no texts, nothing. One night before the meeting she canceled it and she wrote this is the last time I have to tolerate her indecisiveness, she thinks about me with love and hope we will be able to talk to each other again, couse she misses our long talks and me in general, but just bye. I didn’t respond. I just don’t get it. She’s like a roller-coaster. Should I hope for anything after that? It seems like the last goodbye.

I read the whole entire thing, and it broke my heart! But if she dragged her arm down yours it means she wants you to chase her and doesn’t want it to be over! I’ve done the same thing with my boyfriend . She misses you, if she is not seeing someone just tell her you need her and you don’t want to live without her! You want to grow old with her! And do all the romantic things you’ve done in the past! Tell her what’s on your mind! If you don’t want to let go… DON’T!

don’t block her.. Just start the nc rule.. be active in improving yourself and in posting and make your posts publi.. focus on that instead of worrying. I think you should do 45 days.. If she doesn’t contact you in it, that’s good because you’re not supposed to reply. You can initiate after nc.

Well my situation is very complicated as all the others, you see, my boyfriend broke up with me because I have an attitude problem, I’m constantly bitching and nagging and it tore us apart. I wanted to change my attitude issues but I never did, until he left me I said that if he’d give me another chance then I’d take anger management counseling to help our relationship, but he said that he won’t give me anymore chances and that’s it’s over. I don’t know what to do because I know we still love each other so much and that we always will, but how can I get him back :(?

One of the most popular questions I get around here is “how do I get my ex boyfriend back if I cheated on him/ if he cheated on me.” First things first, when it comes to cheating you need to understand one thing. Men and women cheat for very different reasons.