There are four different outcomes when it comes to text messaging. In order to get your ex girlfriend back I want you to understand each of these outcomes and what they mean. Lets look at them for a moment.
Oh, and before we really get started I just want to let you know that this guide is going to be very long. In fact, it may be the longest guide on getting an ex girlfriend back online right now. It was designed to be this way because I don’t want to leave anything out and this is a very complex subject.
I don’t know about you but if I got a letter out of the blue from an ex girlfriend I might be a little creeped out. The last thing you want to be is perceived as creepy or stalkerish and writing a letter the wrong way can definitely hurt you.
Tell her how you feel. Once you’re pretty sure that she shares your feelings, there’s no point in beating around the bush. Find a time when you can both be alone and pick a place that is just a little bit romantic and gives you the privacy that you need. Then, look into her eyes and tell her how much you’ve missed her, and how much you’d like to date her again. You don’t have to grovel, but you should show her that you’ve put a lot of thought into the failed relationship and that you’re determined to make it work this time.
Chances are that you have been feeling sullen and depressed about your break up with your ex. You may even have told them that. If you did tell them that… THAT WAS A MISTAKE… because “neediness” goes against everything that is attractive. On an unconscious level, neediness is absolutely repulsive. It is interpreted as weak.
Remember, in the introduction when I told you that I would have some strange requests that you might not understand but you should trust me anyway and do them because my plan is based on experience and has proven to work? And that when this plan fails it is usually because the person didn’t do EVERYTHING that I said to do?
“I’m now in a relationship with a girl I’m absolutely crazy about. I’ve used the advice you gave in regards to the rules of attraction… and everything you said was absolutely correct. I couldn’t be happier at the moment, and I owe it to you. Thank you. Keep up the wonderful work… I’m sure you’re going to help a lot of people.”
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HER REPLY: “The thing is, is it’s not all of a sudden. It might be for you but it’s not for me. Why do you think I’ve been saying to you that you surely would have noticed. Even my mum has noticed for a long time, she even questioned me on going on the holiday with you. The first time I mentioned it to you was Barcelona, you could even go far back as the first time I broke up with you. And during those times the only convincing anyone has done is you trying to convince me this is just how a relationship goes and then myself trying to convince myself that I’m in love with you. Ivan I tell you I love you because I do love you. But to be honest I can’t actually recall saying to you that I want to spend the rest of my life with you, in fact that phrase coming from my mouth feels foreign. I respond to your gorgeous text everyday in that fashion because I would feel terrible if I didn’t, but I think I should want to do it first thing when I open my eyes, I should want to beat you to it, but instead I would’t even notice if you didn’t.
“Help! How can I get back my ex!” is the distressed plea of many of my clients when they contact me to launch therapy. After years of gradual relationship deterioration, failing communication in a relationship, and off-putting interactions, at least in the eyes of their partner, some final-straw development suddenly propelled their partner to insist that they separate.
Don’t beat yourself over it. These are all knee-jerk reactions after a breakup. The important thing is to realize they are mistakes and not do them again. Your relationship can still be saved if you don’t repeat these mistakes again. The best thing you can do to repair damage done is to follow step 2 diligently.
But after beating the odds and getting a girl back without fail on many occasions — and after having had over 1,200 personal consultations with men whom I’ve helped to get their ex-girlfriends back — I’ve discovered that there are only 5 effective approaches to successfully getting a girl back.
Treat your relationship like a new one. Remember that your first relationship together was not a successful one; it ended in heartbreak. Treat the second time like a new relationship, building new rules of engagement.