It took two days for me to realize I was an idiot. He had met this girl–Keileigh–a week before. She was way too close to him to make me comfortable, gossiped about him, got her friends to hate me. I share a class with her and her friends and they would actually stop talking and change their conversation about Miguel when I entered the room. I was nervous, especially when they started talking about how cute he is and how much they love his hugs and how his… “package” is so big they can eel it when they hug him… which is unfortunately true. So I got upset and started ranting to my friend Sabrina, who went over and saw that Miguel was BOTH of Keileigh’s phone backgrounds. So I confronted her and she aced like it was nothing. I confronted him and we got in a fight. She told me she’d leave our lives forever to make us happy. Then she said she cried so hard she lost her voice at the thought of leaving his life and losing him. I started hating her.

MY NAME IS FIDELIA AND AM FROM KUWAIT I WAS FORMALLY THE ASSISTANT DIRECTOR IN KUWAIT BREVEGES COMPANY(KBC), ME AND MY HUSBAND LEAVED TOGETHER HAPPILY ALTHOUGH HE WASNT AS RICH AS I WAS I LOVED HIM HE ALSO WORKED IN A CONSTRUCTION COMPANY HERE IN KUWAIT AS AN ENGINEER ALONG THE LINE SOMETHING HAPPEN THAT PUSHED ME INTO A FROLIC AND NUNCHANLANT ATTITUDE IT ALL STARTED IN 2010 WHEN I WAS STILL WORKING IN KUWAIT BREVEGES COMPANY(KBC),AN INDIAN MAN WAS ALSO ENPLOYED THERE HE ALSO SHOWED INTEREST IN ME WHICH I TURNED DOWN BECAUSE I WAS ALREADY MARRIED ALTHOUGH WE DIDNT HAVE KIDS BUT HE MADE ME UNDERSTAND THAT IF I REFUSE THAT HE WILL MAKE ME USELESS AND WORTHLESS IN THE COMPANY I TOLD HIM THAT IT WAS VERY IMPOSSIBLE SO I TOLD OUR MANAGER WHO SURMOND HIM BUT HE DENIED AND LATER I WENT TO ARREST HIM NOT KNOWING IT WAS THE GENESIS OF MY PROBLEM SO THE MATTER WAS BEEN CHARGED TO COURTH BUT HE WON, AND AFTER THEN I BEGAN TO HAVE NIGTHMARES OF MEN CHASING ME OR HAVING SEX WITH ME IN THE DREAM AFTER A YEAR IN 2011 HE WAS MADE THE MANAGER OF THE COMPANY, I NEVER ENVIED HIM BECAUSE I ALWAYS KNEW HE HAD SOME EVIL POWERS HE WAS USING IN THE COMPANY BEFORE I KNEW IT MY BANK ACCOUNT DRIED UP AND THERE WAS NO MONEY IN IT BEFORE I KNEW IT MY OWN HUSBAND WAS FIRED IN HIS COMPANY EVERY THING AROUND ME WAS UPSIDE DOWN I QUICKLY REMEMBERED WHAT MR SHERIFF (INDIAN MAN) TOLD ME, SO I WENT TO HIS OFFICE BEGGING ON MY KNEELS THAT HE SHOULD PLEASE LEAVE ME AND MY FAMILY ALONE BUT HE SAID UNLESS HE HAVE HE WAY WITH ME THAT ME AND MY FAMILY WILL NEVER BE FREE AND HE THRETHENED TO KILL MY HUSBAND WITH STROKE I WENT HOME AND I WAS LOOKING AT MY HUSBAND IN THE DINNING AND I WAS CRYING HE NEVER KNEW WHY I WAS CRYING THE NEXT DAY I WENT TO THE OFFICE AND I LET HIM HAVE WHAT HE ALWAYS WANTED, HE SLEPT WITH ME LIKE A DOG SHOULD I EVEN SAY LIKE A PRISONER WHO HAVE BEEN MISSING A WOMAN FOR YEARS AFTER SIX(6) MONTH HE RESIGNED AND INFORMATION REACHED THE COMPANY THAT HE FLEED OUT OF THE COUNTRY AS FAST AS HE RESIGNED I ALWAYS GO TO THE HOSPITAL EVERY MONTH FOR CHECKUP TO MY GREATEST SURPRISE I WAS TESTED POSITIVE OF A DEADLY DISEASE (HIVAIDS) I RAGE INTO ANGER IT SEEMS I SHOULD COMMIT MURDER I TRIED REACHING MR SHERIFF (THE IDIAN MAN) I FOUND OUT THAT HE WAS DEAD A MONTH LATER MY HUSBAND WAS DIAGNOSED WITH STROKE AND ALSO WITH THE DISEASE HIVAIDS THAT WAS HOW WE MANAGE WITH THESE SICKNESS I CRIED EVERY DAY AND NIGHT SO ONE DAY I TOOK IT TO MY SELF TO FIND THE SOLUTION TO MY PROBLEM SO I WAS GOING THROUGH A POST LIKE YOU DOING NOW AND I ALSO FIND A STORY OF HOW AN AFRICAN MAN HELPED A MAN WITH HIVAIDS SO I ALSO TOOK THE SAME STEPSAND I THANK GOD THAT MR (EGBA) CAME TO MY AID HE ONLY ASKED ME TO BUY SOME THINGS WHICH HE USED FOR WORKING AND BEFORE TWO (2) WEEKS MY HUSBAND WAS FREE AND HE ASKED ME TO GO FOR CHECK UP I WAS ALSO FREE I ALSO WENT TO AFRICA TO VISIT HIM AND HE HAVE BEEN HELPING ME I THANK GOD THAT WAS ALWAYS THERE FOR ME

Is it a bad sign that he is acting really nice (in just a friendly manner) and wants me to pick up my items? Also what should I do now that he didnt reply? Should I wait for him to text first next time or should I try initiating a convo again tomorrow?

Well.. I had only two shifts with him this week. Wednesday went well so far but Thursday was a disaster… There is another girl working at the grocery store as well. I know her and I know they have known each other longer time. On Thursday I saw how she got more attention and I noticed that their chemistry is so different. I felt so bad on Thursday. When he came to work, he went directly to her to talk about something and totally ignored me.. didn’t even say hello. I don’t know why on Wednesday things looked so good. Or is it my head that make things look worse than it is. But I know he was hanging all day with her after work on Wednesday (I have heard that they have spend a lot of free time together) . I have a feeling I can’t get him back… I just can’t. She is more prettier. Thursday was so awkward. I still have 6 shifts together with him. Next week only on Monday and Saturday.

2. Liking his social media posts or commenting on them with not-so-subtle trips down memory lane—”Oh, I see you posted a picture of the Statue of Liberty … that reminds me of that time we went to New York but ended up hardly seeing any of the sights outside of our hotel room. LOL.”

My question is: what’s the best timing to send the e-mail? Isn’t it overwhelming around holiday time? Shall I just extend NC until he’s back in town? Maybe I could combine it with wishing him happy holidays and happy birthday?

As mentioned above, you need to be better than what he remembers you to be. Hotter. Way hotter. This can be a huge motivator to any guy to get back together. It’s important that you don’t see each other for some time, and then once you do – he is just blown away by how much prettier you’ve become.

The way you communicate with her via text and in calls will need to change. Given that you’re in a break up you’ve probably been doing it completely wrong, replying instantly to her messages even though she takes hours to respond to you. This has to stop and you need to start doing it right, after the no contact period. That’s why I’m going to teach you how to get your ex-girlfriend back fast by text message, although be aware, texts are only part of it.

With the help of the factors indicated in the previous section of this article, you can decide whether it is worth it to pursue him again. To figure out whether it is the right decision to get him back, spend time reflecting on why you broke up.

“Most couples break up for a reason. Depending on the reason, it may be harder for one girl to get her ex back than another. Her best bet is to try to pretend like it really isn’t bothering her. If a guy still has feelings for her at all, he will begin to question his choice. From my experience, guys tend to get bent out of shape if they see their ex talking with other guys. So bottom line: Be yourself and give him a good reason to want you back. It’s worth a try.”

It’s me again. Since my ex-boyfriend broke up with me, he deleted his WhatsApp account but we are still friends on Facebook until now. It has been 3 months, I’ve put some beautiful pictures of me on FB at the end of weekends, and having a lot of my friends liked and comments for them. I’m happy with that. I have been feeling good about myself and become more confident. I really don’t know if he has checked on my facebook it’s just because I’m not focused on him anymore.

My husband died a year and four months ago. I began working out and joined a gym. Last June, I saw an attractive man and developed an infatuation with him. Then four months ago, he showed up at my church, and I developed a definite crush on him. I’m 59, and I have no idea how old he is. We haven’t spoken two words to each other until July 4, when we ran into each other at the gym by the vending machines. I did discover today, however, that he’s married! Well, the door to any possible relationship closed right then. How can I move on when I will still see him at the gym and church? I can go to another gym for a few days a week, but I’m in choir, and I can’t leave my church. I’ll have to see him in the audience, so I can’t just “have no contact” with him and completely eliminate him from “my view.” This seems totally silly, being 59 and infatuated (and seriously attracted) to a man. Thanks!

With the release of our new program called How She Wins Him Back, we are giving away the ebook version for FREE! Why? For no other reason than we want you to understand these 4-steps. Because these 4-steps are the missing ingredients that cause men to either go “all in” with you. And without the BIG FOUR, men are wishy-washy. Either they go off and try to find another woman. Or they ghost you… not texting you back or calling you back for weeks or even months!

Now, the texting rules as mentioned in the video I linked you to, will do a lot of the work to make her WANT to hang out, and as soon as she WANTS to hang out, then arranging to meet should be very easy. I’ll talk you through what to say to set up a meet with her regardless, though.

Be specific about what you are sorry for. Instead of saying, “I’m sorry for hurting you,” say, “I’m sorry for not returning your calls.” This will help convince him that you have genuinely put some thought into the things you have to be sorry for.

Even after getting into the new relationship, if you show any sign of desperation it will ruin the balance in the relationship. Your partner will become aggressive, controlling and abusive when he/she finds out you are desperate and needy. You should show some maturity and avoid showing all your emotions.

hether it’s been two minutes, two days, or two years since you’ve been unceremoniously dumped by the so-called love of your life, one thing is certain: It sure isn’t easy to get them out of your mind and move on. Will you ever stop feeling those painful twinges when you hear their name in passing or stumble across an old photo from when you two were together? Well, in an effort of heal your wounds, we surveyed lovelorn folks who found themselves suddenly single about what helped them through the tough times. Here are seven real-life tactics that helped heal some broken hearts.