First, what is premature reconciliation?
When a guy or gal is trying to win back the affections of their ex…many times they start to make headway…but then go too far when the ex shows signs of reattachment.
This is understandable, though. you want to get your ex back and now they are making the first move. Take it easy, though.
Do not rush it.
Check out this video:
Here is the Magic of Making Up that Tdub mentioned in the video.
Here is an example:
Tom calls Sally and they set up a little coffee talk…and it goes
well…BUT rather than leaving after 20 minutes or so…Tom continues
and tries to move forward too fast.
And even if Sally brings up getting back together first…Tom’s response
should NOT be YIPPEE! (at least don’t let Sally know that).
He’d be much better off staying calm and saying something like…
“Let’s take it slow and see how it goes.”
Women I email and talk with…often make the mistake of
‘sleeping with their ex’ too soon. (classic Premature Reconciliation)
You want this to last and have a happy ending, right?
Learn to do it the right way. Take a look at the Magic of Making Up and learn how to get your ex back the right way.
