How to Make Her Fall in Love With You Again
Does she not look at you like she used to, perhaps because the love has faded? Would you like to know how to re-ignite the romance you once had in your relationship and maybe make her fall in love with you again?
Anything is possible, and not knowing your specific circumstances I cannot make any promises, but I can tell you that certain actions on your part can certainly give you a good shot at winning her love back. Wouldn’t it be nice if she would smile at you like she used to, not just with her mouth but with her eyes too?
Sometimes don’t you wish you had Doc Brown’s time machine DeLorean to go back and start over with your love, maybe skip over some of the bigger mistakes you made? More guys wish that than you realize, believe me.
If only she would forget the less desirable occurrences in your relationship, the dumb things you said and did so it would be easier to make her fall in love with you again…but what’s done is done and we have to work with that.
What we can do, though, is provide you with some strategies that have been known to soften a girl’s heart and open her mind to the idea of loving you like she used to. Let’s get started.
You Need To Make It All About Her
First off, put the idea of romance out of your mind temporarily. When you are trying to win her back you need pull out the big guns; your goal is to sweep her off her feet (and back into your arms)!
One possibility is to revisit your first date, the location, the mood, if at all possible.
If the exact location just isn’t doable because you’ve moved or the place is out of business or maybe just not age appropriate anymore then improvise, adapt and overcome. The idea is to try to get her thinking about and in the frame of mind of your first days together and the happier times that those were.
That is when she formed an initial opinion of you and identified some key qualities that made her fall in love with you in the first place.
Make Her Laugh Again
Over time, she just stops laughing. To make matters worse, sometimes she’ll laugh when someone ELSE says or does something but if we do it, she rolls her eyes. Ever had that happen?
Relationships have a tendency to take on a more serious tone over time, and the light-hearted laughter fades away – and maybe the love with it.
A woman falling for a man because he makers her laugh is very common, but it can be short lived. How you looked to her was probably important too but came in second to your sense of humor.
When life gets serious, she won’t be so easy to make laugh. You have to up your game just a bit by changing things out. The same old jokes won’t work and definitely don’t try the belch or the … you know what. She never really laughed at that in the first place, only you did.
Observe what she does laugh at to get a hint as to what her tastes might be TODAY and see if you can use a natural flow to work in something that might bring first a smile to her lips and later maybe a good laugh too.
When trying to win her back and make her love you again, laughter can indeed be the best medicine.
Is This Weird? Romance Her Between The Ears
Listen to the voice of experience, here. Where once spending big bucks on a nice bouquet of flowers bought you all sorts of points and favor, over time it simply becomes something that is expected. Chocolates can backfire if she is sensitive to a few extra pounds or inches that may or may not be there.
She wants to think that you respect her for her brain, not just love her body and the way she looks.
Yes, that’s scary because a woman’s brain works quite differently than a man’s but you need to work on this one. Pay attention to the things that interest her, especially something that might stimulate her brain. No, it’s probably not the stock market, but it actually could be fantasy football or Shark Tank, who knows?
Letting her know that you realize she actually has something worthwhile operating between her ears will give you a good leg up in getting her attention AND attraction. You may find HER looking for ways to re-ignite the romance in your lives.
While none of this may seem easy or second nature, it will be worth the effort. Give it time to see results and don’t make your efforts so obvious it’s like a bad sitcom on TV, start by paying attention to her and even take notes if need be.
When looking for ways for how to make her fall in love again it’s OK to be creative and outside the box, but don’t forget the basics either and that’s what I hope we have touched on here to spur your thought process and give you hope!
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