Help To Make Your Husband Love You More
Do you think if you say sweet things to your husband more often you can make him love you more? It sure would not hurt. We always hear about how men should “whisper sweet nothings” in their gals ear. Really? Just what is a sweet nothing anyway? And why wouldn’t a husband want to hear his wife say sweet things to him?
Your husband may not be much of a talker. Most men are not, at least not in a relationship sense – turn the game on, though, and they probably will not shut up until long after it’s over.
This is one common complaint women have about men, not communicating in the marriage. They usually prefer not to talk about how they feel, until they are telling you why they want a divorce.
A lack of speaking about feelings is often interpreted by a man’s spouse as a lack of emotion in him or an aversion to talking about it. Maybe not. Men certainly do feel things, and most husbands love to hear their wife say sweet things to them. And perhaps more than that, they like to know that what they do is appreciated and not taken for granted; that they are respected.
Maybe you feel like it is a waste of time and energy to say certain things to your husband, that it will not matter to him. Unfortunately, it takes some sweet things to counteract the sour things that might otherwise be considered “nagging”.
If you want to make your husband love you more than he already does – or make sure that his love is not wavering, wake him up with something pleasantly shocking: 3 sweet things to say to your husband:
1) I Really Respect You – Aretha Franklin sang about it, you see the gang members in movies demanding it. Truth is that your husband needs to know you respect, the work he does and the money he provides. He may never demand it. And he almost certainly will never ask for it. At least not until he feels at a breaking point! Knowing his wife respects him is critical for a man to really love his wife. Of all the people in the world, he wants your respect the most, whether that is something that he realizes or not. Tell him not only that you DO respect him but WHY also.
2) I Am So Attracted To You – No man these days wants to think his wife married him for stability, or to be provided for. Your husband wants to know that you find him attractive and enjoy physical contact with him. Do I have to say what will run through his mind if he doubts your attraction to him and then one day another woman tells him what you should be telling him?
3) I Love The Way You Make Me Feel – A typical husband does a lot for his wife, even sometimes going beyond what she wants in the way of protecting her. Maybe he is not the sole breadwinner or even the primary earner in your family but most husbands have a pretty full plate in taking care of the house, the cars, the lawn, maybe the investments and still find time to play ball with the kids on a Summer evening. Perhaps he is the one who drives on long trips or in nasty traffic. Maybe even the way he is patient when you take longer than he likes to get ready to go somewhere is one way he cherishes you. Be sure and tell him that you love how he makes you feel as his wife.
How About A Little Bonus?
We all know that our actions speak louder than our words in our loudest voice, right? Saying sweet things to your husband is fantastic and will make him love you more than ever…but – Showing him these things is all the better. He loves your touch, whether it’s a hand on his back, a touch of his arm, just whenever you are around him. Treat him like he has “koodies” and see how fast his love for you cools. Or wait for him to initiate contact, that’s a big mistake.
Run your fingers through his hair – if he has any, cuddle up to him on the sofa. You get the idea. And if he is the breadwinner of the family, show how much you appreciate that by looking for ways to save money whether it be clipping coupons or using a GasBuddy app to find the cheapest gas in your neighborhood. Just today I saw two stations in a small town, 2 blocks apart, one station 30 cents higher than the other! Yet people were still filling up and paying 10% too much.
Most men do not require expensive gifts to know that they are loved and appreciated, in fact, if he pays the bill that could backfire. No, men would like to hear their wife say sweet things to her husband and know she means it. This is something you could start to do today.
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