It May Not Be Too Late To Make Her Love You Again
Maintaining a thriving relationship is not as easy as it seems like it should be or appears on TV and the movies. People get their signals crossed, and the more we use digital methods of communication like texts the worse that gets.
Then there is the taking each other for granted and no longer doing the little things that show you love each other.
Even the complications of life itself with work and taking care of just the basics can lead to one or the other of you – both in some cases – becoming unhappy. Or..just not sure WHAT you feel right now.
In a perfect relationship and a perfect world, one person would communicate that to their partner. But it does not always work so smoothly. Instead, maybe your girlfriend just starts thinking that she would be better on her own; maybe starts making plans to leave.
Knowing what is going on in her mind is not easy, but here are three warning signs that your girlfriend is getting ready to walk away from the relationship.
She Stops Making Plans for the Future
Clarification, she stops making plans for the future that include you. You no longer are informed of what she has on her mind for next week let alone next year. The calendar that you two have kept with family events and shared activities is no longer being consulted or even added to.
Maybe in the past she has hinted about upgrading apartments or wondering if it’s a good time to buy a house, or what mortgage rates are doing, but now, none of that. The topic of your living arrangements just never comes up anymore.
This is a big red flag like the one they wave at a NASCAR race when something goes wrong.
You probably know that girls are forever making plans for the future. In fact, many women begin planning their wedding days in kindergarten right down to the dress, flowers, cake, and party favors. This is a big deal to them. When she stops hinting at wedding bells down the road, it means her mind is moving on.
Unless you do something, her body will soon follow and you will be history.
She’s Suddenly Started Working Longer Hours or Looking for a New Job
Women have a tendency to start getting worried about their ability to support themselves once they begin planning to leave a relationship. Naturally this is the case if you are living together or if there are children involved and you have been providing some of the support.
Financial independence will be extremely important to her as it may determine her ability to actually leave on the proper footing she needs to be comfortable about it. Otherwise she may just be using her as a crutch until she is able to support herself and any dependents and move on.
Whether it is putting in for extra shifts at work, bucking for a promotion, or searching for a better paying job. All of this can be normal for someone trying to excel and get ahead or it could just be another sign that your girlfriend is thinking of leaving you.
She’s Spending Less But Yet Your Joint Savings Are Not Growing
Money does not just vaporize, although I admit it many times seems that way especially when paying the bills.
But you should know about what is coming in, what is going out and whether your savings should be accumulating or not. Maybe she is just saving up for an expensive Christmas gift for you, but her behavior would likely be such that you would not be reading an article about your girlfriend getting ready to walk out on you, right?
Take Steps Now To Keep Your Girlfriend From Leaving
If you feel that some, or all of these warning signs are present in your relationship then the important thing is not to panic. Women can “smell” that like an animal smells fear.
Perhaps she really is thinking of leaving you but the point is that she has not left YET. Let’s keep it that way.
With the proper guide to help you there still may be time to keep her from leaving. There are steps you can take to alleviate the issues she sees as the catalyst to leave you and get on the road to making her love you again like she did in the beginning.
Here is a quick video that can help you right now.